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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 Aug 2021, 9:54 pm AEST

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@Snowie ^^^

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SnowieSenior Contributor21 Aug 2021, 9:58 pm AEST

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oh that must be frustrating hon @outlander especially if he mentions it 4 or 5 times a day. It's not if you need a reminder that there is something wrong with your foot 😒😒

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 Aug 2021, 10:00 pm AEST

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yep @Snowie it gets very annoying and i know its not his fault but i dont really need to hear it 100 times a day. the more i get up the more her says it even if i just walk to the bedroom and back he will say it on the way in and on the way out. i have a new moonboot now so that might be even worse when i start wearing it

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SnowieSenior Contributor21 Aug 2021, 10:08 pm AEST

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It would be annoying @outlander

Hopefully when you start wearing your new moon boot he might stop saying things hopefully.

Hopefully it also helps your foot heal quicker hon

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 Aug 2021, 10:10 pm AEST

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i hope so too @Snowie id really like it healed. i honestly didnt think it would take this long to heal or not still be this painful even after 3 weeks. someone else who has a simialr injury is already back at work full time, wearing shoes, riding horses a few times a day etc and it was only a week for her! 3 and abit weeks for me and i still cant even weight bare even abit on it. i still cant sleep or anything i just thrash around all night

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SnowieSenior Contributor21 Aug 2021, 10:14 pm AEST

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I hope it heals for you quickly hon @outlander

It seems like it is taking a long time for you. Has the doctor said how long it will take at all?

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 Aug 2021, 10:17 pm AEST

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depending on what the results how for the ultrasound so if theres any tendons or ligaments torn and to what extent,so far it could still be at least another 2-3 weeks maybe longer before i have it fully functioning more. Once thr swelling goes down more it might help more cause atm all the bones and muscles are just covered in irritating fluids and b-loods from where the vessels had burst.

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SnowieSenior Contributor21 Aug 2021, 10:22 pm AEST

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Oh gosh hun @outlander I hope for your sake that it is not at least another 2-3 weeks. That is all you need.

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SnowieSenior Contributor21 Aug 2021, 10:37 pm AEST

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Will say goodnight hon @outlander

Have to go pick up D from work.

Talk tomorrow hon

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Eve7Senior Contributor21 Aug 2021, 10:47 pm AEST

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Good night @outlander

Thanks for the tag earlier. I’ve been to a movie and dinner with friends as our lockdown ended yesterday,

Hope you’re ok 💜🤗

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