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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor21 Aug 2021, 9:06 pm AEST

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Haven't got a lot on tomorrow now because of lockdown. Was planning on going shopping with D but now will probably just do some things around the house. Only vaccumed half the house yesterday so better do the other half tomorrow!!

@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 Aug 2021, 9:15 pm AEST

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you can still go shopping but do it online with her @Snowie get her to find some things she likes and show you.

lol i have a tendency to just vaccum the lounge room and hallway!

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SnowieSenior Contributor21 Aug 2021, 9:18 pm AEST

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Will have to do it online @outlander Have got her a few things already so only need a few more things to go with what I already have.

Just couldn't be bothered doing the whole house yesterday, will try and finish it off tomorrow!! Also got some washing to do, that never seems to end either!!

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 Aug 2021, 9:19 pm AEST

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its both easier and harder when they get older hey @Snowie its nice to find some things they dont know about but at the same time they often have thier own styles etc by that age so its nice for them to pick so at least you know the clothes or shoes will get worn!

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SnowieSenior Contributor21 Aug 2021, 9:27 pm AEST

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She picked out some clothes last week @outlander so I have a few things packed away. It is hard as they get older, they do have their own taste. I did buy her some L plates the other day!!

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 Aug 2021, 9:35 pm AEST

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thats good at least you have some things @Snowie
when we were in lockdown last year i wasnt really allowed to see my mum so for her bday i organised flowers and grazing platters to her house. and balloons too.

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SnowieSenior Contributor21 Aug 2021, 9:41 pm AEST

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That was nice of you hon @outlander I hope your mum appreciated it. You are a good daughter 💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 Aug 2021, 9:46 pm AEST

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she seemed to @Snowie ill probably do that with my sister if were in lockdown still in a few weeks time

pops starting to get annoying with my foot. its making me abit frustrated

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SnowieSenior Contributor21 Aug 2021, 9:48 pm AEST

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Sorry to hear your Pop is getting annoying with your foot hon @outlander It must be making you frustrated. Hopefully he gets of your back a bit.

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 Aug 2021, 9:54 pm AEST

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ever since i hurt my foot i obsviously walk weirdly atm cause i cant really walk on my foot at lll except abit on the heel or i walk on the side (almost like stepped in something and dont want to walk it on the carpet) so its obvious to people ive hurt my foot. basically anytime i get up and walk past pop he comments- is your foot still hurting and pulls the :face_with_rolling_eyes: face or makes comments about seeing the dr or strapping it (or if its strapped why its strapped up) etc so i hear this at least 4 or 5 times a day

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