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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor14 Aug 2021, 2:04 pm AEST

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yeah im not doing much @Snowie just studying. not much else that can be done with all these restrictions

what about you, anything planned

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SnowieSenior Contributor14 Aug 2021, 2:21 pm AEST

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Not a lot planned for the day @outlander Went up the supermarket this morning with D and got a few things. She picked out some clothes too which are put away for her birthday coming up. It was nice to spend the time with her, especially since she is not working today. I should be cleaning the house this afternoon but don't

You're right, you can't do much with these restrictions. I hope your studying goes well and you can get a lot done.

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outlanderSenior Contributor14 Aug 2021, 2:28 pm AEST

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yeah nice to have that time with her im sure @Snowie
theres plenty i should be doing but i cant really be bothered either.

im struggling abit with this assignment. i have a heap of information and pictures enough to write a report but writing it is the hard part setting it out etc. i have nearly 30 pages worth of information to edit, take out etc. ive done like 4 interviews and so much research its abit overwhelming trying to sort through it all

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SnowieSenior Contributor14 Aug 2021, 2:43 pm AEST

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Wow @outlander that is a lot of information to go through. I am sure you can do it hon, you are talented and smart enough too.

I really need to clean the house but just can't be bothered. So I am just watching tv at the moment with the dog curled up on my lap! She is comfortable!

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outlanderSenior Contributor14 Aug 2021, 4:20 pm AEST

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slowly getting there @Snowie i just had another person say i can interview them and they are local and someone known for years so thats helpful and i can trust their information as well.
sorry took me so long to reply i was on the phone!
im back now though while im writing up the report

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outlanderSenior Contributor14 Aug 2021, 4:36 pm AEST

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hello @Clawde

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ClawdeSenior Contributor14 Aug 2021, 4:38 pm AEST

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Hello beautiful sole @outlander 🤝

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SnowieSenior Contributor14 Aug 2021, 4:44 pm AEST

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Glad you have another person to interview @outlander Hopefully you can fit it all in your assignment!

Just been doing a few things around the house.

Hi @Clawde 💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor14 Aug 2021, 4:50 pm AEST

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how are you? @Clawde

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outlanderSenior Contributor14 Aug 2021, 4:53 pm AEST

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oh it will @Snowie its going to have to. if i leave out anything relevant i can see the teachers going to mark me down. i really want to try and my marks up more if i possibly can

i got pop to run and get all the clothes off the line. i hada full clothesline full since yesterday and only just getting them in lol

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