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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Thanks for the @outlander 🙂

Did you get your results for the scans? Were they of your foot?

Sending 💙 back.

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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@outlander

💙💜💙

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Sophia1Senior Contributor

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Hello @outlander

I only just saw your worry room message this morning.

I have not been the best myself over the last few days....another story not for here...

I am here for you...

Have you received the results of your scan yet which when we last conversed you thought perhaps thursday?

Was that right?

If swollen, keeping it up would help....not help life though...

I really do hope that the medical people looking after you are keeping your informed and helping you with the best way to look after your foot.

Physical issues when we have mind issues are just the pits...

Please put outlander first at the moment....

the exam you can do sitting down somehow raising your foot even slightly...

family need to be put on the waiting list while you find out what is going on and how to look after it so that it heals..

love Sophia 1 💜

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Good morning @outlander

Hoping you day goes well for you

LOve your sis Snowie 💕🤗💕🤗

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Unknown userMember

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( ( ( @outlander ) ) )

💙💐💙💐💙💐💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

oh yes @NatureLover @Snowie @Sans911 @Sophia1 and everyone who has been following along too

i did get results back from the scans on tuesday, i thought i replied but i musnt have with everything going on here.
the scans have come back that i dont have fractures at least but i do have some deep bone bruising in the front half of my foot, alot of muscle bruising and can see some tears where its been bl--eeding to cause those haematomas. its looking more like maybe another 4 weeks yet before it might start to come back to normal.

@Sophia1 you can tag me wherever if youd like to talk. i think ill spend abit of the day doing abit of study or sleeping. im feeling very worn out. i just have no energy at all the past few days but im wondering if thats because im in a fair bit of pain even when i sleep. because of my medical conditions it just seems to be a massive part of my life now

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hi sis @outlander

I am glad that you don't have fractures but it sounds like the bone/muscle bruising will take just as long, if not longer, to heal.

Hoping you can get some rest today with your foot.

💗💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thank you @Former-Member xo

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yes indeed @Snowie
its been 2 weeks now and i still cant even fit my foot into a shoe yet! i can for thongs or the ugg boot i brought that are 2 sizes up. i didnt think it would hurt this much though or for so long. even when i had a fractured hand after about 2 weeks or so once it was starting to be treated properly it wasnt as painful (except for certain times/thing like knocking it etc) but in general after 2 or 3 weeks i didnt evne need strong pain meds

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Thats not good to hear @outlander

Sounds like it is going to take a long time to heal.

I hope you are able to rest it this weekend 💗

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