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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Lee82 @Former-Member @Maggie @Sans911 @Snowie @Shaz51 @Former-Member and everyone, i apologise in advance if ive missed anyone

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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That's beautiful thank you @outlander 💜💙💚🧡❤️

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Sans911 I read your post, please don't think it was your fault at all. ive been on another thread helping the same member and its been spiralling over something that was misinterpreted. it was you at all, please come sit with me so I know your safe too.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Former-Member

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Zoe7Senior Contributor

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@outlander Here for you too Hon - I have been super impressed with the way you have handled yourself tonight

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Unknown userMember

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Yeah @Sans911 ... not your fault at all. 💗 Not your responsibility. Its mine! All mine.

I agree @Zoe7 , @outlander was everywhere, and did everything right. Well done Little One. 😇

Please be okay @Sans911

Sherry

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Zoe7Senior Contributor

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No it isn't in any way your responsibility @Former-Member I can say that I have been away for a couple of days because I could see this happening from Thursday evening and did not want to be in the middle of it in any way. This is a pattern for that has evolved a couple of times before and all those same warning signs were there. I am so very sorry you are in the middle of it all now but I will re-iterate ...it is not your responsibility, not your fault and you did absolutely nothing wrong.

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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I will be @Former-Member but regardless I think it is no one's responsibility. People over react to sometimes the smallest things. I'm exactly like that. And right now I'm over reacting to the overreactions. I'm trying to use my coping skills and wise mind to accept everything everyone is saying, including you. But you need support too @Former-Member as I'm sure you are hurting as well.

And yes little @outlander needs a damn medal. She's amazing.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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No it isn't in any way your responsibility @Former-Member

Like @Zoe7 said and I felt it earlier today and it has happened before

xoxoxo

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Zoe7 💚💙

Nope, not your fault either @Former-Member 💌💌
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