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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Good morning @outlander @Sans911

Wishing you both a good day, hoping it goes ok for you both.

Missing you hon @Sans911 hoping everything is ok with you.

Much love to you both 💕💕💕💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hows your day been? @Snowie

@Sans911 missing you

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hi @outlander

My day has been ok. Spent the morning on the couch. Saw my psych today. Am exhausted now.

Am trying to get motivation to have a shower.

How are you? How has your day been?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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how was your psych appt? hopefully helpful abit..

my stomach hasnt been going to well today so have been mostly at home. i felt ok for abit around lunchtime though so i took the kids down to play with their horses. we are in a lockdown area so its hard on them as well being at home all the time.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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It was helpful (I think) @outlander , just tiring. I didn't get through half of what I wanted too either. So I don't really know what to do now.

Sorry to hear your stomach has been playing up hon. Hoping it eases tonight.

Hoping also your lockdown doesn't go for too long. It has come at a bad time when holidays are here. Glad you were at least able to get out of the house for a little bit.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yeah appts can def be tiring @Snowie
it should hopefully ease overnight but atm it might be on and off till i can get some dietican help with the new diet requirements for IBS.
yeah lockdowsn annoying. it always seems to happen around school holidays too!

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hopefully you can see the dietician soon hon @outlander

You cartainly have gone long enough with all your troubles.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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do you have much on tomorrow? @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Not a lot @outlander

Have to take D to work and pick her up. Will try and make it up the street to do some food shopping.

Just no motivation to do anything.

Do you have your sisters again tomorrow?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yeah im hearing ya, the motivation thing can be hard @Snowie
Is D enjoying work?

i dont think so, or not till late arvo anyway.
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