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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Morning sis @outlander

Hoping you got out for your ride today and that the weather was better for you.

Have a great day sweetie.

💕💕💕

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Yes @outlander

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😞 @Zoe7
Do you mind i ask you a couple of questions? I was diagnosed with it just on friday and feeling abit lost with it all

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Ask away @outlander

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thank you @Zoe7

Im mostly wondering how you manage or any tips you can share for it?
my gastroenterologist has refferred me to a dietician so they can help with the fodmap plan and was going to put me a pain medication but im already on that so am a step ahead. he also advised me how to use certain otc meds but its all abit overwhelming.
ive already had 2 ed trips for i guess theyd be called flareups (but cause tests were fine they sent me back home again ) it worries me abit that it might happen again as hes said i suffer from more of the severe symptoms. from memory i think you also experience the more severe symptoms too?

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Yes I often suffer from the most severe symptoms @outlander and it is hard to get through.

I had to cut out a lot of foods - and some trial and error with different combinations that affected me also. There are a lot of foods I cannot eat - or can only eat a little of sometimes (can never really tell when that is so generally avoid those foods). Having smaller meals helps - too much at once is a sure fire disaster.

I generally do not eat breakfast or during the day at work to avoid any possibility of pain - that is not ideal but it is better than the alternative so I have adjusted. It does however contribute to my lethargy sometimes during the day but again - I have adjusted.

I take probiotics, anti-nausea meds and extra vitamins daily but there are still days they are not enough - they really are the days to just get through. Those days everything stops because there really is nothing I can do.

I eat a lot of steamed veggies and salads which also helps - that was not such a big change for me though as it was what I already did. I don't eat much red meat - found that was a real contributor to my IBS.

Good that you are seeing a dietician - that expertise should help.

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your diet sounds much like mine. For the past year when i was diganosed with the allergies as well it changed alot of things, i really only have the one meal as well unless i am at home all day as a just in case thing. i have alot of vegies. salads and fruit too but i had no idea half of what i was eating as well was probably contributing and why i wasnt feeling any better despite removing allergens.
it seems like there might be quite abit of trial and error for some things for this too.

do you get many flare ups?

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Fruit is not always good either - especially with any kind of skin on. I don't get as many flare ups as I used to but it did take me a couple of years to work out what I could and could not eat @outlander - as well as combinations of things together Ginger is good - and I have a lot of that in my meals.

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yeah there seems to be alot to learn! @Zoe7

oh i didnt know ginger was good. there wasnt much info on ginger but said to stay right away from anything with onions and garlic.
at least you have worked out what is good for you to manage flare ups.

do you have any websites that have good recipies on it? i think thatll be my next endevour

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How are you going tonight? @Anastasia
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