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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 June 2021, 11:09 pm AEST

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Thank you for your post @NatureLover i hopw i can learn to live with less guilt over time too 💕

@Sans911 hoping your appts went well today 💛

@Snowie i know todays been tough, i hope tomorrow is better though even just a little bit 💚

Sending everyone here some love too. Hoping there has been some good moments at least 💙

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SnowieSenior Contributor16 June 2021, 9:54 am AEST

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Good morning @outlander @Sans911

Wishing you both a good day today.

Lots and lots of love and hugs 💕💕

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PeriSenior Contributor16 June 2021, 1:49 pm AEST

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Dear @outlander ,

i have been thinking about you and wondering how you are. I have read back, but I don’t know what you feel guilty about. Guilt damages you, we can all feel it, but do try not to dwell in it, it does not improve anything and will drag you down.

i have not been around much lately, so I have not been much support but will be here for you if you need.

peri

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SnowieSenior Contributor17 June 2021, 9:53 am AEST

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Good morning sis @outlander @Sans911

Wishing you both a good day today.

Sending lots of love and hugs to you both 💌💌

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jem80Senior Contributor18 June 2021, 10:04 am AEST

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I just stuffed up a job interview. I was so anxious and after I finished and got offline I realised what it was they were asking. I feel so degraded and embarrassed.

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Unknown userMember18 June 2021, 10:50 am AEST

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@jem80 I'm sorry to hear 💗 I've been there before and it's truly an awful and disappointing feeling.

We never know for sure how these things will go- sometimes in interviews I'm not confident with how I went, only to find out with surprise that I did well overall. That could turn out to be the case? Otherwise, all the best for future interviews Very few people are offered interviews out of all those that apply, so I have faith in your capability 😊 And it can be a tedious process, but we're here for you on the forums each step of the way 💐