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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Lee82 💖
If im not fully in it i think ill be ok, its only abdominal thank god for that.
Ill make one for friday tomorrow, ill just double check with them itll be in by then.


Just have to manage tonight. The gp brought up some things which reminded me of my past and put me in a stressful position esp with him being a male. I cant talk about it here though as its too triggerring for lots of people.

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Unknown userMember

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I am glad you have that strategy, please keep that in the front of your mind as much as possible before the scan. I am sorry to hear that the dr visit trigger memories for you. I hope you are ok sweetie 💖 @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Former-Member
Just my own sa stuff coming up after he was asking a few standard questions but couldnt tell him the actual answers

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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I'm sorry to hear your struggling tonight. I can understand the whole male thing. I am the same always request females.

is there anything you can do to help distract your thoughts? I know you are really good at using your tools @outlander

sorry i kind of feel helpless.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Ive just taken some pain relief @Lee82 hopefully will at least settle physical stuff so i can manage mh stuff.
Ive just got music on and playing phone games. Id really like to be asleep before 4am tonight

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Unknown userMember

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I am sorry you are having a tough night my friend. It's always hard to come up against those sorts of questions and situations. I really wish there was something useful I could say, something that might actually help you tonight. @outlander

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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How's your assignments going? Did you get anymore done today?
@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Its ok @Former-Member its kind of you to even be here 🌻

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I havent done anymore yet @Lee82 i have 5 sections to do of the 4th assignment but i have to wait for the tafe teacher to get back to me about an alternative. I can start the next module but i have to wait for an alternative for an assessment in that module as well.

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Unknown userMember

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I wouldn't want to be anywhere else my friend and it is the least I can do after all the support you have given me. @outlander

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