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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I told her that i might need procedure @Snowie but not really details like time off etc. Ill wait till its booked i think.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Well done for telling her hon @outlander I hope she took it well.

You need to do what is best for you sweetie 💟💟

How has your day been?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i just said i might need one and she says 'doesnt really surprise me'
im going to look at services (like cleaning and yard maintence) so that itll take the pressure off abit

ive done another 3 hrs travelling again plus done horses. back home now after picking up pop. just making up a calander to put all my appts on here plus the days im feeding horses etc so ive got it all in once place

hows your day been? is d ok

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Sounds like you have had a busy day today hon @outlander

I hope you are able to rest this afternoon and get some time to yourself.

Services might be a good idea hon. That would take the pressure of you too whilst you are recovering.

D is ok, just a rough day at work yesterday and then got herself worked up about it. She just has to learn that some days will be good and some bad. She had a good day at work today so that made things a little better for her.

My day has been ok. Went and visited mother in law then nicked up the street. Just relaxing now with a cuppa

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i guess thats the good thing about work, it does teach many skills like resilience as well @Snowie its good she had a better day today though

your day seems ok, i like the relaxing with a cuppa the best though 😏

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Got the ironing done too which means I don't have to do it through the week!

Just having a cuppa before I have to start cooking tea @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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one less thing to do through the week is always a good thing @Snowie

im sure the washing or dishes will keep you occupied otherwise lol

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Washing never seems to stop @outlander 🤔🤔

Have you got a busy week ahead of you hon?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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just kids and horses this week @Snowie and calling a few places to do appts for myself and pop lke flu vax. but nothing else really

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Well hopefully you can get some time to yourself too hon @outlander

I have got pdoc tomorrow which will be good to see him. Just hate having to drive an hour each way to do so. Hopefully the traffic is ok and it doesn't take me any longer.

Besides that my week will just be the kids too, and washing!

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