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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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ive been trying to @Snowie but i think ill need to work out how/what to do and it might help

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Sounds like you have got some decisions ahead of you hon @outlander

I hope you are able to work it out for yourself.

Only a tag away if you need help sweetie 💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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need to try and decide what to do about a procedure @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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That must be a hard decision @outlander

Is there anything we can help you with?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Will be back soon hon @outlander

Got to go pick up D from work

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I do want procedure but just lot of thing on mind. Havw to try ans tell mum and work out home life etx as well since its at least a week off and then only light duties for a few more

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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@outlander

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander wrote:
I do want procedure but just lot of thing on mind. Havw to try ans tell mum and work out home life etx as well since its at least a week off and then only light duties for a few more

That sounds difficult, @outlander . Good luck working things out...

💙

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Sorry sis @outlander I didn't get back to you last night. D came home from work upset and was trying to deal with her plus a few other things.

You need to do what is best for you hon. Perhaps with your Mum and others taking over some of your duties, they finally start to see how much you do, especially for your Pop. They see how much pressure you are under day in day out.

I am worried hon that you don't put 'you' first, and always put others before yourself.

Hoping today goes well for you sweetie. Will be around for awhile.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@NatureLover @Anastasia 💕
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