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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Sans911 @Snowie @Eve7 @Anastasia 💕

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hi @outlander

How are you going sweetie?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Not overly great but i guess thats normal now @Snowie how are you

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Do you want to talk about it hon @outlander ?

Am around for awhile if you need to chat/sit

I am okish. H has gone away for the weekend.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I just seem to take on alot all the time including emotionally even when its not my issue so to speak still affecrs me sometimes more then my own stuff


Hope H has a good time. Is it for work @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I'm sorry to hear you feel overwhelmed @outlander

You are such a caring and supportive person for other people hon and sometimes you take on so much at the one time.

Is there something you can do just for you tonight or perhaps on the weekend.

H has gone away to do some work on where we go to the snow. So it is sort of like work. There are other people going tso I am sure there will be some drinking involved too!

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I just over think alot i guess and help others try to avoid what i go/ went through esp with friendships not working out etc. Just forever worrying about something but i dont get anxious much just keep sinking lower in mood. I always remind myself that even in family including sisters or those close to me they will nake their own decisions too and i dont have to take it on but brain overthinks everything.

I dont really feel like doing anything anymore.


Are you planning on going to the snow this season? @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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It must be hard hon to have your brain working in overdrive all the time @outlander

You are such a caring, loving and genuine person that you take on so much.

I'm sorry to hear your mood is sinking sweetie, but please remember that we are here for you.

We are planning on going to the snow. Will spend some of the school holidays up there and some weekends too. Am looking forward to the serenity of it.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Yeah its quite difficult @Snowie

Hope tou can get to the snows. Looks nice where you go. Peaceful.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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It is peaceful where we go. There are others around but I can still get time to myself up there.

It must be difficult for you hon @outlander Especially when our mind is going a million miles an hour.

Have you got much planned for the weekend?

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