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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I havent really been going that much to my own @Eve7 have been neglectful compared to my usual efforts 😫 i just havent had as much time or energy either the last 2 or so weeks 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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That must be really hard for you @outlander because you’re normally so diligent and hardworking.

Have you done any crocheting? I will be getting my knitting out soon just waiting for cooler nights, it’s goid to keep my hands busy.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Yeah abit hatd when ive had that colic the last 2 weeks i guess @Eve7
I dont really know why but i seems to have more motivation amd like to do other peoples horses compared to my own. I guess life changes hey.

Ive been crocheting alot. Have to go to spotlight and get more yarn. Im nearly out and only around halfway through the blanket.

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Good on you for getting into the crocheting @outlander

I can understand looking after other people’s horses more than your own because you can be detached from the other horses where if it’s your own then that involves relationship which is difficult when you’re unwell,

I might have to say good night as I’m nodding off.

Sweet dreams

xox

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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@Eve7 @outlander 🌹💐💞🙏

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander @Eve7 @Anastasia

Lots and lots of cuddles and love 💕💕💕

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Love to all @Snowie @outlander @Anastasia @NatureLover @Sans911

💜💙💜

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hey @Eve7

How are you going tonight?

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Needing an early night @Snowie as didn’t sleep much last night.

How are you?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Sorry to hear you didn't get much sleep last night hon. Hope you can get some sleep tonight @Eve7

I am okish.

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