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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Noat=most sorry mispelt it!

Hope you can get abit of sleep tonight ans tomorrows much better @Snowie 💜💕❤

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Sans911 are you still up? 💜

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Yes lil Sis @outlander 💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Sans911💕
Do you mind sitting with me for alittle while only if you feel ok though

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Of course my angel @outlander 😘😘😘

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thank you @Sans911 🙏💜
How has your day been?

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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I had a really good session with my pyschologist today. My ndis plan is coming up for the annual review very soon so we discussed what needed to go in the report, and what my goals might be going forward. With that I discussed my safety plan, and all the difficulties relying on services for help. The really nice thing she asked me was what would be my ideal situation if I was in a serious crisis or feeling the need to sh.

I said to her that what I would really like is for someone that could sit with me and hold me close. Make me a hot drink, tell me tomorrow is a new and different day to try again.

I loved that she asked me that @outlander. No one has ever asked me that before

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Your new psych sounds like she was eorth the wait and actually sees people as more then $ like alot of them do @Sans911 i haven't heard of many psychs asking that question, i know i havent, it would prob throw me off guard!

I would do all that for you in a crisis if i could 💜

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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You always sit with me in a crisis if I ask @outlander, and helps so much.

Yeah, I'm getting to like her a lot. She's very real, very personable. I think it's been worth the wait. She told me that there is a lot of work ahead for me, but we will only do what I'm comfortable with. A little at a time.

The review of my NDIS plan is a scary time. Just because I ask for certain things doesn't mean I will get them. I may loose some of my funding yet. So I have to have strong reports from all my supports, as well as my own report. I need to present a good, solid case of why I need an increase in funding for all the supports I have, and why I need them to continue.

The supports I have now are essentially keeping alive. And functioning better than if I had none at all.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I really hope you dont loose funding @Sans911 your finally getting good support services, you really deserve them! I hope those reports will help with that 🤞🤞
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