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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Thats not unpatriotic hon, that is looking after yourself @Eve7

I doubt I will get up in time to watch the dawn service. I might tape it and watch it later when I wake up.

You were good to make ANZAC biscuits. I just brought mine from Coles today.

Not a lot planned for tomorrow, just doing some things around the house. The normal washing and cleaning and D working.

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Thanks @Shaz51 💜

Hoping your night goes well

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I like the Dawn service from Gallipoli @Snowie which is on at a more reasonable hour our time.

My niece just invited her mad Aunt to a sleepover at a posh hotel so I think I’ll take up that offer.

I really feel for you struggling so much hon. Big hugs.

💜🤗💜🤗💜🤗💜

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Thanks @Eve7 for the hugs 💜

The dawn service from Gallipoli is good, I have watched that one before. I am taping the one from Canberra so will watch that when I get up.

Ohhh staying at a posh hotel sounds like such a nice idea, I hope you enjoy that time with your niece. She sounds like a good person to spend time with 💕

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She’s just lovely @Snowie and quite uncomplicated which is rare in my family.

I’ll probably stay over on Tuesday night so better get my pearls ready to wear.haha.

Watching footy now but my team lost today. Do you watch the footy?

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Hehe @Eve7 I am sure you will have a great time with her, pearls and all!!

I do watch the footy but mainly will just have it on in the background. Do go for a team but don't really care if they win or lose. Have gone a few times and taken the kids too. We have a relative play for a team so normally go for them.

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I think you told me that before @Snowie and my h had a relative play for that same “happy team”.

I don’t care too much about footy these days. I saw my team win a GF a few years ago so that was it for me...crossed off the bucket list!

My meds don’t seem to be working tonight so I’m having a cuppa.

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A cuppa sounds good to me @Eve7 Still have another hour before I have to pick up D from work.

I went to a grandfinal a few years ago. Was one of the best things I ever went to. Just the atmosphere with that many people there was so great.

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Everyone needs at least one GF in their life @Snowie and I agree such a wonderful experience.

I just toasted a crumpet which I haven’t had for ages.

D is working late or is that usual for a Saturday?

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It was a wonderful experience @Eve7 Something I will never forget.

D's hours vary on a weekend, just depends on what time she starts. If it is a school night she only works till about 8 or 9 but on a Fri, Sat night she seems to work later. H normally does the late pick ups but he has had too much to drink so cannot drive tonight. I am normally asleep by this time.

Hope you enjoy your crumpet hon. Good that you are eating something.

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