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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor23 Apr 2021, 9:52 pm AEST

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I did some from home today @outlander but pdoc doesn’t want me anywhere alone.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor24 Apr 2021, 7:37 am AEST

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@outlander and @Eve7 - sorry you are both suffering 😞

Sending you both much 💛💙 and wishes for hope, strength, sleep, pain relief, and whatever you need most...

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SnowieSenior Contributor24 Apr 2021, 2:42 pm AEST

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Good afternoon sis @outlander

Wishing you lots of love and hugs.

💟💟💟💟

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Eve7Senior Contributor24 Apr 2021, 7:22 pm AEST

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How was your day @outlander ?

💜💙

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Eve7Senior Contributor24 Apr 2021, 7:32 pm AEST

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Hi @Snowie 💜💜

How was your day?

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SnowieSenior Contributor24 Apr 2021, 7:39 pm AEST

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Hi @Eve7

My day has been not so good. I have lots happening at the moment that I am not coping so well with at the moment.

Enough about me.

How are you going sweetheart?

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Eve7Senior Contributor24 Apr 2021, 7:56 pm AEST

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My day has been ok @Snowie I had a visit from my gorgeous niece who stayed overnight and we went out this morning together which was fun. She’s working here for a few days so it was lovely she spent the first day with her mad Aunt.

I’m sorry your day has been hard. I hope you get some better strategies next week. When I spent a week in hospital a while ago it helped having the 3 ECT sessions rather than weekly.

Still in this together hon 💜💚

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SnowieSenior Contributor24 Apr 2021, 8:03 pm AEST

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Haha, "mad Aunt" @Eve7 So glad you had a good time with your niece.

My day just feels like that all the time now. Just seems the norm. Just trying to take it hour by hour and get through the day/night.

I am glad the ect sessions helped you hon, hopefully it will keep you out of hospital for now.

Have you got many plans for tomorrow?

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Eve7Senior Contributor24 Apr 2021, 8:15 pm AEST

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No plans @Snowie . My kids are going to the Dawn service and my friends invited me to go running then the 10am ANZAC thingy but I think I’ll sleep in and be unpatriotic.

I did make ANZAC biscuits and we’re having a bbq in the arvo plus we’ll play 2 up. I’m not hosting it.

Do you have anything happening tomorrow?

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Shaz51Senior Contributor24 Apr 2021, 8:17 pm AEST

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Sending you lots of hugs @Snowie ❤❤❤❤

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