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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor05 Apr 2021, 8:50 pm AEST

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@Sans911 @Snowie 💜

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Eve7Senior Contributor05 Apr 2021, 9:27 pm AEST

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💜💙💜🤗🤗🤗💙💜💙

@outlander @Sans911 @Snowie

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Sans911Senior Contributor05 Apr 2021, 9:29 pm AEST

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👋♥️♥️@Eve7

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outlanderSenior Contributor05 Apr 2021, 9:32 pm AEST

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@Eve7 🌻💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor05 Apr 2021, 9:35 pm AEST

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@Sans911 💜
Have missed you. I hope your feeling abit better today

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Sans911Senior Contributor05 Apr 2021, 9:44 pm AEST

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Yes I'm a little better thanks lil Sis @outlander. Still quite tired but that is my new normal.

I still read my notifications even when I'm not here. But some days I have no more capacity to take on any thing else. I have a lot going on that I don't discuss here.

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outlanderSenior Contributor05 Apr 2021, 9:46 pm AEST

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Im glad your feeling a little better sis @Sans911
Im hearing you n the tiredness, seems to be my new normal amongst other things.

Do you have much on tomorrow?

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Sans911Senior Contributor05 Apr 2021, 10:12 pm AEST

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Yes, busy day tomorrow and all week really. Seeing my new psychologist only for the second time. Also have my support worker, and then taking my neighbour to his gp appointment.

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outlanderSenior Contributor05 Apr 2021, 10:33 pm AEST

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Thats a busy day @Sans911

How was the first session with the new psych?-im sure you told me already but ive forgotten

@Eve7 @Emelia8 how about you guys? Any plans for tomorrow?

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Sans911Senior Contributor05 Apr 2021, 10:50 pm AEST

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My first appointment was alright @outlander. I went in with no expectations so to be honest I was a bit underwhelmed. Not in a bad way though. It has now been almost a month since I last saw her, so I guess we are starting again. The practice has a habit of forward booking so the appointment after my first one I couldn't make it as I had too much else on that day.

Its a bit annoying that they do that, because I work on a two week plan for appointments(in my diary). I emailed the practice though and requested the dates of my next few appointments.

I was supposed to complete and send back a very lengthy questionnaire for determining the schema therapy. But all I managed was to complete it. I feel a bit bad, but sometimes the days just disappear!

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