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@Faith-and-Hope - that really pleases me as I do have faith in you. I think you will be delightfully surprised when you do get around to it. When you paint don't think about it - just "feel your way". We are always a lot harder on ourselves than others are on us. I am the same when I write....

I can't wait to see the end result of your artwork - sincerely. I love art. Please keep me updated 💕

Thanks @Former-Member .... I'll see what I can do .... 🤗💕

Lovely pics @Maggie .... ❣️

@Former-Member

Thank you @Maggie for your support. 💕💜❤️💜❤️ You are one of the few genuine people who so selflessly understands what I am going through and genuinely cares about others.. And I sincerely appreciate it. Thank you for your compassion. It's something I have always felt and tried to offer as well. There was some really good support from wonderful members on the worry room thread. There is some special people on this forum and I sincerely love hem.

I remember your words to me:- "you are a good person". I have always endeavoured to try and be, friends who know me say that too and I will continue to do as much good as I can, as that's always been my intention. I won't let my current difficulties or any undeserved criticism and unkind gossip any from any other person who I "never mentioned at all" whom completely misinterpreted my expression of my turmoil on my thread here, wrongly taking it personally when it had nothing to do with them, take that away in my most vulnerable moment. I know people here are not well, but I don't need this right now. It is traumatising me. I need support too and this is a wrong against me. I don't feel safe here now to reach out On my own thread! Ridiculous. Some need to know that it's not just about them but others are struggling too.

It's wonderful you took the advice and started your own thread. I am proud of the confidence you are showing - well done!!! It will go from strength to strength. I hope to keep welcoming new members here so worry not if I am not posting here as much as I will be spreading myself out. I am doing okay now 😊

Cant wait to see more of your garden pictures on your thread - it's so uplifting to see my friend, truly beautiful. It means more to me than you know as I find such peace in nature. I also look forward to your cross stitch pictures. I will put a pic of my angel up shortly. 💕🤗xx

@Former-Member Please never feel pressured to,post here, I know you want to help new comers, something very important. Your situation atm is so difficult you need support from wherever you can get it. Is there a cancer support team or group in your area, someone you can talk things through with? If I could put a stamp on my counsellor and post her off to you, she would be winging her way right now. Please @Former-Member dont put on a brave face here, I will sit with you through the dark times for as long as it takes. I know my way round in the dark, I can even plant my bum smack on the loo in the dark. Lol. Just having a giggle with you my friend.

Ive been waiting to see Angel all framed, I'll bet see looks a treat. I'll,post my latest efforts tomorrow.

Have you visited the community garden here? I visit daily as I too love nature. Maybe you could post a pic of your plants.

You are indeed a good person. No arguments from me. Thankyou for your encouragment about my thread, it's been difficult to do but there you go. Remember, you are not alone we don't have to talk, just sit by the candle. Here with you.

Hi @Maggie

The only problem with sending your social worker by mail my way is I may want to keep her lol. She sounds so wonderful 💕 I will try and look for someone similar who is perhaps attached to the hospital system etc. As I do admit it is hard going coping with this on my own. I have been guilty of trying to do that in the past thinking I can cope. But It's emotionally gruelling to wait in hospital rooms not knowing if I will ever see the person I love again alive or not again. Or receive bad news. It's frightening. I will start making enquires after tomorrow if I can get any support that way. Thanks for the guidance.

You cracked me up again @Maggie - you put amazing visions in my head of your skills in the bathroom dept hahaha. I love it! I needed that laugh my friend.

Sometimes I do like to talk - the trouble is I talk too much lol! I can't wait to pop onto your new thread and stick my feathers in and tickle your nose to say hello aha. You have boosted my spirit @Maggie - thank you. You are a jewel. And I am looking forward to seeing your cross stitch pics as well - will try and get some photos of my angel up on the weekend. She is framed up nicely 😊

I better try and get some sleep now - I have been having trouble with that lately but you have a magic way of relaxing me and I will sleep better for it. But no getting stuck in the Lou in the middle of night now. Bottoms up 😂😂😂 xxx

Sitting enjoying the view that soon will welcome me everyday. My dream weaver. For you @Maggie 💕

@Former-Member I'm just smelling the sea, feeling the breeze on my face, and squishing the sand through my toes. Thank you I needed that view right now. Your dream home is going to be just that, a dream, and by the sound of it, starting soon. Sending warm hugs.

Hello lovely @Maggie

I am starting to get very excited about the move there my friend. I am off to visit the site again today, going for a long walk along the beach this time. Yes, wish you could walk with us. Perhaps in spirit. I may post my photos, writings (ficition) and inspirational quotes etc here now perhaps. I am trying to get a good photo of my framed angel cross stitch without light reflecting off the glass. May have to drag my SLR camera out and try again. My friend saw it and loved the job the art shop did on the framing. Photo should be up soon my friend. Look forward to seeing your cross stitch too. You can post it here if you wish. I will pop over to your thread now and answer your post there. 💕💜❤️💜❤️🌹xx