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when is it time for hospital

when is it time for hospital

when do you find its time to go to hospital?

im debating whether its the right move for me

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That's why I don't like mental health because I worried about my privacy and with one on one with a therapist you have a say in your treatment.With mental health,as stated they take your file assess it in a group meeting .I didn't like their approach as they are social worker s mostly.I started studying social work years ago .I had one guy once showing me pictures like I was a child on mood and the brain.I was bored s****** and it wasn't help.That was the social work approach years ago to write on a whiteboard so the client could visualise their problems.The case management approach isn't for me.I was concerned last year when I had to go them because I wondered if they had me mentioned at the local hospital,where I know everyone.At the time I was high risk of SC.

If you aren't comfortable at any time,talk about it if possible,don't stay with anyone you aren't comfortable with or don't trust.At the end of the day outlander by my experience and a lot would agree,your family situation will never change,...But you can.The counseling should be about you,dealing with your issues whether it is the trauma of sexual assault or something your mother said that really hurt you etc.At the moment I feel they should be focusing on you.The holistic approach may be involving your mother but whether it works in reality is another question.

Stay safe outlander,I'm off to bed.It sounds like you know what is good for you and what isn't.😃

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Thanks heaps for your advice @Former-Member
Glad to have you back 💓💓
I have an idea what to do but i dont think prople outside the forums are going to like it

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Re: when is it time for hospital

That's why I don't like mental health because I worried about my privacy and with one on one with a therapist you have a say in your treatment.With mental health,as stated they take your file assess it in a group meeting .I didn't like their approach as they are social worker s mostly.I started studying social work years ago .I had one guy once showing me pictures like I was a child on mood and the brain.I was bored s****** and it wasn't help.That was the social work approach years ago to write on a whiteboard so the client could visualise their problems.The case management approach isn't for me.I was concerned last year when I had to go them because I wondered if they had me mentioned at the local hospital,where I know everyone.At the time I was high risk of SC.

If you aren't comfortable at any time,talk about it if possible,don't stay with anyone you aren't comfortable with or don't trust.At the end of the day outlander by my experience and a lot would agree,your family situation will never change,...But you can.The counseling should be about you,dealing with your issues whether it is the trauma of sexual assault or something your mother said that really hurt you etc.At the moment I feel they should be focusing on you.The holistic approach may be involving your mother but whether it works in reality is another question.

Stay safe outlander,I'm off to bed.It sounds like you know what is good for you and what isn't.😃👍

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Re: when is it time for hospital

Thanks heaps for your advice @Former-Member
Glad to have you back 💓💓
I have an idea what to do but i dont think prople outside the forums are going to like it

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I just hope you get the right help outlander to help you to go on and live a life and to one day be grateful you survived it.That is what I dream.💕

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@Former-Member 💓💓💓
Maybe one day hey

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You have youth on your side outlander,and guts,I wouldn't get help when I was twenty.I had to go back to do yr 11 because I took a year off school due to sexual assault.The fact is you are confronting your probs,not running from them or tolerating it.You know you deserve better.💓

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My sa was happening during yr 11 and 12 unfortunately @Former-Member
Ive only just gotten help. I dont know or think i deserve better but i hate living this way. I often question the point of it.
If i spend all my life fighting for this what happens later in life the physical medical problems appear and i live through that ? Its not what i want to stick around for
Ive tried running from them and just ignoring them snd pretending they arent there but thats not working so i dont see much other choice.
A few weeks ago i stopped everything.all psychiatrist appointment all gp all everything judt to tske a break to really find out if it was making a difference ti me and at first i thought it was the right choice then i got to the point of finding a way to make a suicide attempt then i realiser i needed help if i was going to kerp myself alive so here i am. Completely stuvk in this shite deep black hole but im alive right

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I don't blame you for not wanting to see a male psych @outlander 😮
I'd be the same. It's probably because of sa.

Is your sa therapist female? Gosh, I hope so.

💜 Hi by the way
I haven't read everything but did notice about the male psych.
I'm not even comfortable with a male gp, but sometimes a male one us all that's available at the last minute.

I really hope they let you change to a female.

Not sure who's chatting here tonight, buy, hello to everyone. 👋💜

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Hi @Former-Member yep that is the reason Simple as that. I aldo told my gp that snd shes still trying to push me inyo see this male therapist with mums bf and im not friggin doing it.
Yeah my sa therapist is a female i made sure of that
And yeah i dont do male gps either

They will let me change to a female but for some reason they are pushing me into it and the mh psych constantly ringing me id freaking me out to the point i dont have my phone on me now
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