when is it time for hospital

@outlanderits ok if you dont know what you feel. Happens to me alot. Can you maybe have a chat to your pop, he might be able to help you be less worried than you are now

i already did @Former-Member i left it becasue hes not too worried about it and he said that.

@outlanderI understand needing a break from you own mind and body, if only we could!

You are not putting other people through hell. You did not ask for this and it isn't your fault.

Maybe try and think about it from your Pop's point of view. If he isn't worried than neither should you. (and as I typed that I thought it is easier said than done)

@outlander Hi outlander I am so sorry to hear about your pop doing poorly atm. You may have already answered this question but how old is your pop?

hes 74 @Bunniekins

i cant do it anymore @Former-Member enough is enough.

@outlander 74 these days is considered quite young particularly when people are living into their 90s. He has the right attitude. I wish him well.

Do you want to take you mind off things for awhile @outlander I am having a look at topic tuesday. it is about recovery. Want to come take a look with me?

@Bunniekins we almost lost him about 3 yrs ago. he was on life support after a surgury that went wrong. i guess im worried that i might loose him like i lost my nan.

@Former-Member maybe. i dont really know. i might just follow along in bits and pieces.

@outlanderwell that makes more sense now. If you almost lost him 3 years ago then of course you are worried about this time. Completly understandbale especially since this is something that you have no control over.