outlanderSenior Contributor
when is it time for hospital
when do you find its time to go to hospital?
im debating whether its the right move for me
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when is it time for hospital
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Unknown userMember
Re: when is it time for hospital
Hello Claire 
@outlander
I don't have anything planned Thursday {though it's enough days away that I could possibly need a reminder}. The change might be hard, but things staying the same I think is much harder. I like the plan, I'm imagining when it happens it will be very hard and your words may not work - so having everything printed out will overcome that.
I think it was wrong of your Mother to go on holidays knowing everything you were facing, I'm not going to list it all out, it's too depressing. I'm sorry for your tears and sickness, it will all be worth it to be able to move forward a little.
Inch by inch, 1 tiny little footstep at a time - your getting there . . . to where things are going to be better
Niqua
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Former-Member ive found my new profile pic. You'll have to wait and see what it is. I have to wait till im on my computer to upload it. I love you lottle dream house too. Its pretty cute ❤
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Hmm i didnt get these notifications for here.... will get back to here though
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Unknown userMember
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@outlanderare u ok?
I am not getting any notifications either, I think something is wrong with it
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Former-Member thats ok. ❤
Will just make this combined as it all runs alog the same line @Sans911 @Owlunar @Former-Member
Im not going to meantion her bf this time but i will be talking to her about the family dynamics and that it needs to change. Im not talking to him. He is not my dad nor does he have any say in what i do.
Im not taking anything to the police. If he arks up again then will speak to mum but i dont want to keep bringing up the past.
Its going to be hard enough telling her to friggin snap out of her shite and get her head out of the clouds and see it for what it is and not what she wants it to be. Ill start with that cause i dont think i cant handle the abuse one. At least he hasnt been doing it recently. I guess it can wait. It destroy everyone and everything if i say it now and i font have current evidence.
I done 20ks on the exercise bike this morning and it just doesnt seem enough. I have no appeitite either. I look at diner and start heaving. I cant stand it anymore.
How can someone so young have to deal with all this crap and be the adult and fix the situation.
I cant change people but the situation has to change
Will just make this combined as it all runs alog the same line @Sans911 @Owlunar @Former-Member
Im not going to meantion her bf this time but i will be talking to her about the family dynamics and that it needs to change. Im not talking to him. He is not my dad nor does he have any say in what i do.
Im not taking anything to the police. If he arks up again then will speak to mum but i dont want to keep bringing up the past.
Its going to be hard enough telling her to friggin snap out of her shite and get her head out of the clouds and see it for what it is and not what she wants it to be. Ill start with that cause i dont think i cant handle the abuse one. At least he hasnt been doing it recently. I guess it can wait. It destroy everyone and everything if i say it now and i font have current evidence.
I done 20ks on the exercise bike this morning and it just doesnt seem enough. I have no appeitite either. I look at diner and start heaving. I cant stand it anymore.
How can someone so young have to deal with all this crap and be the adult and fix the situation.
I cant change people but the situation has to change
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Former-Member above msg
But no im not ok
But no im not ok
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
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I only just figured out what the bell was for and noticed no notifications at the busiest time of day\
Hi @outlander - you might as well do the whole thing at once but I will leave that decision to you
And what you are doing can't possibly destroy the whole family - one reason is that people choose how they react to what other people express and not knowing any better you have let this happen and in reality you have every right to your own life and to be treated decently
Also - this is not good for your sisters either - they deserve better - they need their mother - what she is doing is wrong for them too
About time they moved out - it's to easy for them to live in Pop's house and not pay rent themselves - and they will all be okay
I think that despite things like wide spread power grid shut down you will have plenty of back-up here - sounds terrible for you - really great that you have come this far
Dec
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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i dont think i want to talk about this anymore
its really distressing me
i cant stand my own reality
i cant stand my own family
i know it has to change, i just have to try and make it change at least for a bit.
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MDTSenior Contributor
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hey @outlander i had a read over what you said and this stood out, "is not my dad nor does he have any say in what i do"
You are taking a stand and this shows you value yourself enough. I'm really happy for you that you can do this. You are 1000% right 🙂
You are taking a stand and this shows you value yourself enough. I'm really happy for you that you can do this. You are 1000% right 🙂
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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thanks @MDT the tags arent working at the moment so sorry if i miss anything
im currently jsut refreshing the page while im online
