outlanderSenior Contributor
when is it time for hospital
when do you find its time to go to hospital?
im debating whether its the right move for me
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when is it time for hospital
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Unknown userMember
Re: when is it time for hospital
That sounds like an excellent idea @outlander, will speak later 
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MDTSenior Contributor
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hey @outlander
ive just a read over what you've said
I'm unsure of what to say, so I just wanted to let you know that I'll be here reading and keeping updated.
I really wish there was something I could say to help.
Please take care 🙂
ive just a read over what you've said
I'm unsure of what to say, so I just wanted to let you know that I'll be here reading and keeping updated.
I really wish there was something I could say to help.
Please take care 🙂
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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I cant keep doing this. Its not right
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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Popping past to wish you the best with your constructive rather than destructive adventures today @outlander. That sounds like a great plan 😊
I hurt with you last night, feeling unable to offer more than the words I did. I get it (I think) and see how it could be a trigger for lots of past times. You are very loveable 💗
Look after you, as you do.
(Ps yes I might not write as much here to you as used to do, but that's mostly because I that I think you have amazing support and feel like you benefit a lot from the the loyal crew you have here. But yes, I watch on often too, here even if I don't say it all the time).
Take care today x
I hurt with you last night, feeling unable to offer more than the words I did. I get it (I think) and see how it could be a trigger for lots of past times. You are very loveable 💗
Look after you, as you do.
(Ps yes I might not write as much here to you as used to do, but that's mostly because I that I think you have amazing support and feel like you benefit a lot from the the loyal crew you have here. But yes, I watch on often too, here even if I don't say it all the time).
Take care today x
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
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Ah @outlander
@outlander wrote:
I cant keep doing this. Its not right
What's happening now - what is it you can't keep doing and feel it's not right?
btw - the idea of doing something constructive is good but remember the stitches - I don't know how many you have this time but it must be quite a few - or more
Take it easy physically
btw - all the pics are different owls and they have sooooooooo many - I can do this all day
Dec
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Unknown userMember
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Good Morning Claire @outlander
How are you this morning? I'm good, still waiting for rain but at least it's cool 🙂 I get the feeling by asking you that question it might give you an opportunity to let a little negitivity out - let it flow out - it's got to come out somewhere. If it helps, pretend I'm your Mother and tell me what you think! I've got pretty thick skin, I can take it. I do a simular thing, except I scream it out loud to the air and the Universe. 'It's not fair, I shouldn't have to do this, I shouldn't have to go through this, it's not fair'; and it's not fair Claire, it might be the way it is, but it's not fair and you are allowed to say so.
So much love coming your way
Niqua
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Yeah im not really sure of that plan yet. Im currently sitting outside listening to my sister yap on about nothing and watching the world fo by.
I like having you herr. I know your here even when your quiet and thats fine. Just wanted you to know that i appreciate it even when your 'not here' i watch alot of things too but like you find it best to step back atm. But i know your there so thank you ❤❤
I like having you herr. I know your here even when your quiet and thats fine. Just wanted you to know that i appreciate it even when your 'not here' i watch alot of things too but like you find it best to step back atm. But i know your there so thank you ❤❤
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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I can see the first 2 pics now @Owlunar they are cute. Thank you.
My whole life is wrong. I shouldnt be sittng here teying to organise kids. They arent mine.
I shouldnt be sitting here wondering wtf my life has become and not knowing how to change it.
Everything is all wrong. Wrong. Wrong.
And yes alot of sutures i cant remember how many there are. Its the fact they are there i suppose. Yes ill be gentle but i have to do something. I cant sit here anymore. Im going out of my mind literally and my skin. The more i sit the worse i feel so i need to get up and move or so something. What that is i dont really know.
My whole life is wrong. I shouldnt be sittng here teying to organise kids. They arent mine.
I shouldnt be sitting here wondering wtf my life has become and not knowing how to change it.
Everything is all wrong. Wrong. Wrong.
And yes alot of sutures i cant remember how many there are. Its the fact they are there i suppose. Yes ill be gentle but i have to do something. I cant sit here anymore. Im going out of my mind literally and my skin. The more i sit the worse i feel so i need to get up and move or so something. What that is i dont really know.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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I wouldnt take it out on you Niqua and besides i dont think thr mods would like whay i have to say. It wouldnt fo with guidelines thats for sure. @Former-Member
The sun it out and here and im watching my sister no surprise there.
And no it isnt fair at all.
Love you too ❤
The sun it out and here and im watching my sister no surprise there.
And no it isnt fair at all.
Love you too ❤
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
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HI @outlander
Just an idea - could you lie down for a bit and maybe sleep - you have been awake all night and one by one we all went to bed - I guess we have to
Thinking about your sisters though - your middle sister is capable of looking after the little one - so ask her nicely to do that and then go to bed for a while - you can listen and hear what happens
You are right - they are not your kids - they are their mother's responsibilty and you have just had major surgery - you need some sleep to recover - certainly be on your own to do whatever
You are right - it is wrong - I am sure your sisters would like it so much better if you were their sister and not their forced-labour-carer who really does love them - but not when you are losing your own time and lifes' experiences doing it
Best you try and sleep
Dec
