when is it time for hospital

@Former-Member @Sans911
I had a pathetic shower as i ant get shoulder or back wet. Ive got suggestio on what to do over the week and things and the house will remain clean now as we wont be home quite alot of the time but i just need to breathe for a while .

Yeah im just on that @Sans911 why would i need anti inflams it still hasnt touched the pain. I move my arm to reach out to grab my towel without thinking by god not again. They pulled and pinched like a cow

@Former-Member for friday ive got a bit of help for my checkup
Other than that i havent got anyone
Ive got a list of easy things to do. The middle one can amuse herseld and has plans with friends but the youngest one will beed to be occupied. I spent so much today on new movies and art and craft stuff and a deck of cards as rain is suppose to happen tomorrow and possible friday as well.

Tomorrow lunch time we are going to the cinemas

Please tell me your Mother left money for the week otherwise that would really clarify the situation @outlander,it shouldn't be coming from your pocket.

Anti inflammatories help with pain AND swelling @outlander. Quite safe to take with simple analgesics. What did your doctor tell you to take or do? And I have two random, possibly daft questions. Dud your mother give you any money for your sisters activities or outings? I sure hope she did are they're your sisters, but not your children. And please don't take this next question the wrong way. You say you need to get away for a few days, you've been super overwhelmed and had panic attacks. Could you check into hospital for a few days? You have every right to be admitted. You're mother need not know if you didn't want to; and I'm certainly not encouraging it, but you would get good care, meals, activities? It's just a thought @outlander.

@Former-Member thanks for asking the same question. I actually wouldn't want to be within spitting distance of @outlander's mother. I don't think I would have very nice things to say to her

@Former-Member @Sans911 no she didnt
I didn't ask either though. She apparently is bookibg me a night into a hotel when she gets back.

@Sans911
Im not going to hospital. Not now. I just have to get through the week they are away. Then i need to go out and take a break.
Ok ill take both next round. 9 pm i can take them again last dose was 4ish pm

Drs instructions were:
Dont get them wet
Take it easy but i can do normal chores such as dishes etc
Take pain relief when required

Thats

She still should've left money for the cinema,food etc @outlander,you shouldn't had have to ask,it's called being a responsible caring mother and pay for your night away.

@outlander - it was only a suggestion, so I hope you're not mad with me. It would have been nice to be more than one night away AND money for the girls. You'll get through @outlander. Set boundaries with them and be firm. I know that's hard, because they don't see you as an authority, so they probably tend to play up. If you can stay as calm as you can, they will see you are serious. When you're stressed they can use that to their advantage.