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when is it time for hospital

when is it time for hospital

when do you find its time to go to hospital?

im debating whether its the right move for me

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I just deel like i am @Former-Member i cant seem to see positive ao all my negative stuff is dragging everyone into it
I appreciate the help i just cant seem to get out of it
Everything just seems to be a mess

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@outlander - you've no need to be positive if you don't want to or can't. Thats your own expectations. You have a lot, a heck of a lot of things going on in your life. Day in, day out. All you can do is do your best, which is what you have always done. Everything may me mess, but it won't always be like that forever sweetheart. Hugs lil Sis

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That something bad will happen and no one will help or that im not going to have any relief or much help if any at all @Sans911 they really overwhelm me with all the noise and bouncing around and stuff
I havent even booked a hotel yet
I cant afford it i just spent a heap organising activities
And i cant take it for another 3 hrs yet

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@outlander You are not dragging us into it. I understand not being able to see the positive in things. It's hard when we feel this way to find any positives in life. I get that. We all help each other out remember. You have got so many people on here who want to support you. So I will just sit here with you for as long as you need. Get those pillow and blankets ready from last night😀

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We replied at the same time @Sans911 so secobd msg to u
I wish thibgs would ease esp now
Great time to have sutures and being overwhelmed
I wish my life was abit easier

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Thanks @Former-Member i wish i had a real comfy place like that you can have sone pillows and blankets too and join me
You too @Sans911

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Well @outlander make that comfy place in your mind. We can settle down, have some tea to drink, few nibbles☕️🍰

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@outlander with our lives right now, nothing is easy. Unfortunately, you have to deal with whatever is going on, but you have @Former-Member and me right here. And you can do whatever is needed to be done. Because you are capable. Get your sisters involved in the house work. Try to make it an adventure and give little rewards, like a story, extra TV or a movie. I understand you can say what pain medication you're on, but if you're taken plain pdol, then it's ok to take anti inflammatory meds in between. I hope that makes sense. I'm so frustrated at times myself by not being able to help you in real, practical ways. Hugs lil Sis 💛💜💙💚

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What's age the sisters are @outlander,you shouldn't have to ask them to make the effort,my niece's were like that, remember one at the age of 16 coming and I'd have to still pick her towel off the floor,not speaking to neither of them for their lack of respect towards me.If you have to .You said you hated them going to anybody else but probably would do them good to give them a chance to reflect how good it is with you!🍉

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@outlander Listen to @Sans911 advice, she gives REALLY good advice!!

We just have to do the best we can. If that means you just need to blurt all this out, then go ahead. We are hear to listen without judgement. Or as my psych calls is 'verbal diarrhoea'😁😁😁😁😁

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