when is it time for hospital

hi all

I've missed a fair bit today as I went off the grid to study for an exam tomoz

@Sans911 I'm not sure about the specs of your situation but I am thinking of you at this time 🙂

hope you are on a good track

All the best with you for your exam @MDT. Get a good rest tonight, eat before you go in there and I hope you have a clear and sharp mind.

Ok guys ive been getting so mixed up ive had to sit down and work out my days and times etc for the next few days.

Tomorrow and monday im on call for surgury if a spot becomes avaliable.
Monday afternoon is my psychologist appointment-session 2 of trauma work
Tuesday morning is my sheduled surgury time

ive got someone to look after the kids for me until mum gets home from work. And on monday arvo mum will be home to watch them while I have my psychologist appointment.

@Appleblossom@Former-Member@Faith-and-Hope

@Sans911still hugging you ok. For as long as you need to. Im not going anywhere.
I know how you feel with the continuous struggles and bad news. I get and understand completely.
Maybe itll do you some good to have some MH respite. Its better than hospital.
You need to weigh up the medication options. Maybe they can work out another one for you that will work and not give you SH impuleses. They are hard enough to manage on their own and its not what you need.

I wish your housemate wasnt putting you through that. Maybe you could have a calm chat with her and say look you need to start helping here otherwise youll have to move out. Having a word like that with her might see she needs to pull her own shite together and help out. Have a family member there if you need to.

Good luck at your writers group, hopefully it gives you some respite and if it doesnt the wombat hole is definently there. Its nice and warm and comfy and cozy.

Good luck with your exam tomorrow @MDTdeep breathes and just try your best @soulhas offered some great advice too

Sound like you have it worked out @outlander.😉

@Former-MemberI had no house mate for 4months before she came along. I worked sometimes, sometimes I had no choice. Other times, I had to take some time out during and after hospital admissions. I barely scraped through, but I managed. So I can do it again, or do Air BB. The good thing about severe depression is not wanting to go anywhere or do anything, so I barely spent money apart from the odd coffee and essential foods. She did pay bond, put is not on the lease; long story. At least the writer's group was good. Smaller group tonight, but I could barely concentrate on anything.

@outlanderthanks my angel, needing that return hug. I am feeling very worn out right now-so much going on my head; I am trying to shut it down or I'll never sleep. I am super glad you have managed to sort some things out for next week. You have remarkable resilience for such a young person. I know my house mate is struggling too with depression right now, which is making her not motivated to look for work. So it's super hard because of this, yet I have depression too, but I still have to pay rent & bills. No one else does it for me. But this makes it extra hard to tell her to pull her socks up (even down nicely), even though I no longer have a choice as I have very little reserve funds (which she is already eating in). Such a stupid, damned dilemma.