when is it time for hospital

Hello Claire @outlander 🙂 My beautiful cyber grandgirl :):D

How are you going? Has your Mother and bf gone on their holiday? I can tell by your likes on my posts you know I've just come out of my central whirl, and I'm hoping today will be a 'sit & get over it day 😉 Though I did a fair bit of that yesterday, I did also have a bath {woo hoo:)} after collecting the rubbish and putting it in the car {wow:D}; going into town and going into the bank, willingly sitting and waiting to walk into their little room and chat!;)! I handed over my childs details after explaining a few of the situations details and kind of set up a phone call between them. I'm hoping it will help with the transportational problems in my Center 😉 My brain is a bit frizzled, it does kind of feel exhausted - like all the fuses have been burnt out; but there is the hopefulness of a positive outcome, so everything is lifted just a bit at the moment . . . at least I got the ball rolling 🙂

I think I just need to sit and drink a dozen cups of tea and play some mindless computer games to relax. But I just wanted to say, I love you and hope you R Ok Your always floating in my mind with the hope that everything is going positively for you

Niqua

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@Sans911 wrote:

@outlanderIf your mother wants to take a holiday, you are not at fault for that. They need to sort themselves out. You are not responsible for their decisions. Just carry on and stay out of it if you can. You aren't a loser at all, and deep in your heart you know that. Look at how you do- you raise money for charity, you work hard, you study and you're good at it, you take care of your grandfather and sisters. If you were the loser you say you are, wouldn't you be lounging around all day doing nothing?

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Hi @outlander

I so like what @Sans911 wrote here I copied it - well said Sans

You are not a loser because other people make crappy decisions without including you in their considerations - boy - your mother is the big loser here

So - they have to take the day off because you need time - okay - that bf is not your anything until he gets around to marrying your mother - he can work - wow - he's a user - and from where I stand your mother can't make a decision without him

About the mole on your back - yeah - that is something to worry about - when that started was a long time ago and people get them - I know you feel as if it is your fault but I have had them - I am not sure they were melanoma - my daughter has had melanoma - but why blame ourselves? It's something to deal with sure but people have them.

What would be bad is not dealing with it - and I do know about not dealing with things -

You are a fine young person trying to grow in toxic soil - an environment blind with other people's hate and selfishness

We love you here - people really do love you here

I care a lot -

Dec

@outlanderHugs lil Sis, sometimes we do things unconciously. Do you have any plain vitamin e cream you can have that you keep handy when you stsrt to feel the need to scratch? Don't let them stress you to much; they are trying to bait you in to responsding. Just ignore, go give the sore a wash, wash your hands, and see if you can find a plain cream to put on

Sorry about your mother @outlander

It must be some kind of syndrome with her pathologies or mh not managed.

Unfortunately I can relate to that too, but wont tell my story as it is now a past history one.

Something about mothers being distorted in health needs for their kds.

Protective Services should pay more attention to that kind of thing.

Take Care Bella

I say Bella a lot as I knew a lot of Italians growing up.

I knew more about "Andiamo" than let's "go for a walk" for a while... lol

It is not healthy to get used to @outlander

Personal space is important for healing; physical & emotional.