outlanderSenior Contributor
when is it time for hospital
when do you find its time to go to hospital?
im debating whether its the right move for me
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when is it time for hospital
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
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First thing first @outlander 
i have to unlock the shed make up 6 feeds do the 6 different horses xx
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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That's a life lesson @outlander ...... any time inertia takes affect (no energy in our muscles, or feeling frozen) ... close you're eyes, breathe, and work out the next three tiny steps, then take the time it needs to take to do them, even if the first step is as simple as throwing back the bedcovers, the next step is sitting up, and the third is standing up.
Be kind to yourself as you do .... no fault-finding or name-calling ..... no comparing to anybody else, or even what you have done before .... just here, in this moment, now, and the very next baby step when and as you can.
💜
Be kind to yourself as you do .... no fault-finding or name-calling ..... no comparing to anybody else, or even what you have done before .... just here, in this moment, now, and the very next baby step when and as you can.
💜
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Ok @Faith-and-Hope its hard and overwhelming but smaller steps make it doable even in the smallest of steps...
Im up to heading to the other paddock now
Im up to heading to the other paddock now
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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Well done @outlander .... ❣️
You're getting through the steps beautifully.
Just make a note of the sense of achievement that comes with that as well .... allow yourself to feel it for a moment ..... you will register the memory of it as something to come back to ..... like a anchor.
You begin to return again and again to that sense of achievement in the little things.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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im done @Faith-and-Hope its all done. doesnt take long at this paddock. im heading home now
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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WTG @outlander .... 😊
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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thank you for helping me through all the steps @Faith-and-Hope
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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You're welcome @outlander .... 🤗💕
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Good afternoon @Appleblossom
I can respond better now..
yes unfortuantley the bad news never stops but as F &H has said ive got to try and use it to build resilience and keep going. Even small steps can be overwhelmimg arent they. Its like I know I have to do this but I cant do it and feel stuck so then have to break it down even smaller to the smallest steps possible to make them just that bit more manageable.
I knew this wasnt going to be good. I went to get it checked before but im an idiot and as my bathroom is set up the opposite to the gp office I got her to check the wrong side and it had changed in the week id had to wait to see her again. I just wasnt expecting this. It really has 'knocked me for 6' as they say.
No not really tbh in regards to the mood stabilisers.... but after what youve written yes now I do.
Oh im sure theres a lot more people who find even getting out of a car overwhelming. Im sure I can share many other things that you would relate to, in fact im sure this whole thread would reveal them... but in short your not alone and never thnk you are
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Sans911 how did your inspection go
