outlanderSenior Contributor
when is it time for hospital
when do you find its time to go to hospital?
im debating whether its the right move for me
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when is it time for hospital
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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i cant see this working. if i was to talk to mum shite would hit the fan and i think it would make it worse for me.
and then im sure mums bf would pipe up and i can already see the argument and whatll happen
ill cop the whole guilt thing- we have to work, we are going away on holiday and cant take any more time off work'
i wonder maybe if i made another attempt and they knew maybe they would listen to me and stop yelling at me everytime i try to anything nice
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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@outlander - panic really plays some games with my ability to communicate, think clearly, assess a situation etc. If you're panicking, it may be worth working to find some calm before making any decisions (like whether you can or can't house sit, have the conversation with your mum etc.). Thinking of you
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Ant7Senior Contributor
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@outlander- can you write out a pros and cons of doing/not doing house sit. It sounds like extra work if you do the other, so is it worth it. And you the worst outcome from your mother; would it be worth trying to stay calm and have a conservation with no demands, just 'I've been asked to do this, what do you think? Can we work something out'?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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i sent my friend a msg @Sans911 @CheerBear@Ant7@Former-Member@Shaz51 😞 😞
she knows my home situation so i told her that 'thank you for the offer but i dont think i can house sit. im worried about what what mums reaction is going to be and im worried about playing with fire at the moment since its so close to watching my sisters. i have to be stable for then but im still able to look after the 4 horses
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Unknown userMember
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I agree with @Sans911 @outlander!There is something wrong if you can't bring up the conversation but I think you know the way it's going to be without asking.It's just a bummer the timing.Its sad how you cannot have a casual conversation when you are a young adult.
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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Hope it helps to relieve some of the stress and anxiety now you've made a decision @outlander. It sounded like a good opportunity for a break but it also seems like it had some downsides too.
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Unknown userMember
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OK @outlander,yes I knew when you brought it up at the same time as your mum's holiday I feared it would be more trouble than it's worth.Dont worry, let's just hope your mother's boyfriend steps up and finds accommodation soon .
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Ant7Senior Contributor
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@outlander I think you have made the best decision for you for right now. I know it was hard on you but I hope you feel some relief for you now ❤️💕
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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not really
im upset 😞
im worried about my friends response
i feel so bad
im 20 and cant go house sit for friend
how lame does that sound 😞
