when is it time for hospital

Yes it's a shit.life to many outlander,my over 4 years of counselingincluding spilling my guts to several idiots,stint and belief in antidepressants which probably just numbed my negative feelings.I suggest you make a time in the day to remove yourself from your situation whether it's going for coffee,a walk etc.

Hi @outlander

When I have finished preparing my salad and finished my chores I will be going out and getting a re am of computer paper and then ringing their helpline to sort out the printer - I can manage that during the day but not at night

I love what @Former-Member said

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@Li1 wrote:

.I suggest you make a time in the day to remove yourself from your situation whether it's going for coffee,a walk etc.

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How old are these little sisters who need so much baby sitting? I am sure they can hack it long enough for you to disappear for a while - you don't have to go far - maybe even watch them from a hiding place so they will think you have gone - and left them - but you are there all the time

I hated it when my mother told me to look after my little sister - luckily I was busy out of the house with several important things like work, night school and being in the army reserve - so yeah - she didn't insist too often but when she did - ah - let's sing the Little-Sister-Blues - my lil sister could do what she liked and it was always my fault - I was either too slack in letting her do what she liked or a bully for stopping it - aw - I know you can't win

But yeah - try and disappear for short spells - and gradually make those spells longer - I am sure those little pains-in-the-rear-end will manage

Lots of hugs - I wish I was your mother - I would be encouraging you to find your feet in the world - not abusing you

Dec