outlanderSenior Contributor
when is it time for hospital
when do you find its time to go to hospital?
im debating whether its the right move for me
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when is it time for hospital
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Shaz51 above msg
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
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hello @outlander ,
seeing psychologist tomorrow , It might be good to get your point of view acrossed , I know totally what you mean my sister , the new psychologist maybe very good at listening to you point of view , I know that is scary , but see how you go and go from there xx
sending you hugs and we will be with you 
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Unknown userMember
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Yes the thought of explaining myself again ,and having to repeat my life like it's a script for a TV show because I said it so many times I can understand.Your mum I presume only talked to her on the phone or in person?The only thing outlander is maybe she could be like a mediator between you guys,who can explain how you are feeling better to them.Sometimes,(not all the time) it can be good for a third person who can assess the situation.If she gains their trust,it might be beneficial to helping the situation.
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soulSenior Contributor
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The psych should realise that there are always two sides to any story (sometimes three - what actually is the truth 😆) Can understand your frustration in yet another psych and starting from scratch @outlander.
Whilst it did me good to get things off my chest, I have discontinued my psych visits. For me, it's a case of accepting what I can and cannot change, knowing that the only thing I have control of is my attitude and trying to move forward. Finding the smallest bit of happiness where I can. Living in the moment, not getting bogged down in the past and not fretting about the future.
Easy to say but not the easiest thing to do. Definitely a work in progress that hopefully I will get better at.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Shaz51 yeah i am going tomorrow. i jsut hope it goes well otherwise im ready to just not continue seeing a psych but i think thatas heading into dangerous territory if i dont see one- if that makes sense.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Former-Member @soul@Shaz51 im not going to re explain myself again. im just getting help wth the things i need help with for that particular session. i think its the easiest thing to do. and at the moment its adjsuting back to normality and right now i wish i was back in hospital. my mood is up and down still and ive hit a slump. i cant talk to my family as much as they want me to, i just cant.
i actually dont trust them and thats a sad thing but my past says otherwise and their reactions before are sticking to me like glue. i dont think they ahve changed only making a bit more effort for me not to watch the kids but thats it.
i actaully want to go in there tomorrow and speak the truth- which is all that seems to come out of my mouth. mum and her bf mainly her bf which is pi**ing me off is that if this psych says i should be and i needed to be in hospital then they will believe me. so really thats telling me they dont really beleive me now anyway.
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Unknown userMember
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People will never change outlander,that's a fact, work on you that's the main thing , that's the only thing important for you at this moment.You are like all of us on the website who are hard on ourselves,and trying to heal at the same time.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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i am working on me @Former-Member
im just afriad and dont know how to feel or what to do.
they have gotten me where they want me- back into the controlled corner.
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Unknown userMember
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Read what I just said on souls thread outlander,I understand the effects of family and so do others.I believe you are able to see the situation for what it is,not what weight you are feeling on your shoulders.
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Good night Claire @outlander 🙂
When you say it's your Mum's psych I wonder if you mean you Mother goes to appointments with them? If that's the case, maybe they know your Mother well; and perhaps they might have a better idea what your going through with her? I'm proud of what your doing, how hard your trying 🙂 Don't give up, your doing really well Sleep well and peace be with you.
