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confused about sexuality

confused about sexuality

hi everyone

i was abused by a male when i was younger and now im scared of males but at the same time i i still like them- hopefully that makes sense

but of recent ive started has some feelings for a female. it doesnt feel the same as what i do about males but i dont feel its love either....
gosh this is probably making no sense to anyone- its confusing me too but hopefully some one can give me some advice on how to decifer this
ive always been drawn to females though- maybe its a comfort thing...?

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hi everyone @utopia@CheerBear@Former-Member@Mazarita@Shaz51

how is everyone doing today? what have you been up to today?

i had a great day yesterday, i love learning. my friend rode her horse around the paddock while i walked her other one she offered me aride but ahhh not quite yet i think ill stay on the ground for now lol. but it was still really great. she did some jumping and i did too but just led them over them on the ground. it was such fun. i was very buggered afterward though but well worth it!

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Hi @unknown. Just an idea - but maybe your first ride on a horse could be on a pony - or a small old slow horse

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maybe @utopia that could be an idea though i think id be to heavy for pony

but how are you doing? what are your plans for today?

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Just on the train returning from my appointment with the Neurologist in Melbourne. @unknown. Didn't sleep at all last night & it's caught up with me. Will sleep on the train.
Ok. No pony - but a slow well behaved - doesn't like to go faster than a slow walk - horse. Lol

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glad you had a great day yesterday @unknown

today is a holiday , but we did my mum`s gardening , wow it looks different now xx

home now , hubby is asleep

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OMG @utopia are you ok, that sounds really scary!!

yeah my freind horse is quiet and she offered to lead me but i think ill learn abit mor about them from the ground first

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yes it was great yesterday @Shaz51 and looking forward to the weekend when she will be be spending more time with them again 🙂

ohh i love nature though im not much of a gardener myself but i do admire all the sorts of plants

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appointment with the Neurologist @utopia, hope everything is ok my friend xx

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Hello @unknown

im not much of a gardener myself but i do admire all the sorts of plants, -- yes I am the same

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hi everyone im wondering if someone could help me.. @utopia@Mazarita@Shaz51

im not complaining about getting like for posts but it seems to be over riding my inbox it there a way to just reduce the emails for the likes but still get the notifications when i log on and also still get emails to say when people have commented on my threads or threads im following?

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