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confused about sexuality

unknownSenior Contributor28 Apr 2017, 2:01 pm AEST

confused about sexuality

hi everyone

i was abused by a male when i was younger and now im scared of males but at the same time i i still like them- hopefully that makes sense

but of recent ive started has some feelings for a female. it doesnt feel the same as what i do about males but i dont feel its love either....
gosh this is probably making no sense to anyone- its confusing me too but hopefully some one can give me some advice on how to decifer this
ive always been drawn to females though- maybe its a comfort thing...?

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Unknown userMember01 May 2017, 5:23 pm AEST

Re: confused about sexuality

hello

i am sorry i cannot remember what i did.

someone who is more computer savvy will be along shortfully

@Shaz51 @utopia @CheerBear @Former-Member

one of these might be able to help

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Shaz51Senior Contributor01 May 2017, 5:30 pm AEST

Re: confused about sexuality

Not sure @Former-Member, @unknown xx

@NikNik, @CherryBomb might remember

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CheerBearSenior Contributor01 May 2017, 5:41 pm AEST

Re: confused about sexuality

Hey @unknown. If you log on to the desktop site you'll be able to manage your notifications by clicking your name and using the settings for email and notifications there. I use mostly mobile so I switch my phone into desktop mode often, but it's definitely easier using the full site. Hope that helps?

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NikNikSenior Contributor01 May 2017, 5:43 pm AEST

Re: confused about sexuality

Hi there @unknown

Here are the instructions to change your subscriptions. I personally, have changed my 'likes' notification to 1 daily email which contains the info on all the likes I received that day.

I hope this helps!

How can I change the notifications I get?

To change your notifications settings:

make sure you’re logged in on the desktop or tablet version of the Forums
go to your profile by clicking on your username near the top right corner of the screen
click 'edit my settings' in the blue box
select ‘Subscriptions & notifications’
select ‘Notification settings’
change your settings
select ‘Save’.

You can find more 'How to's here

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unknownSenior Contributor01 May 2017, 8:16 pm AEST

Re: confused about sexuality

great thank you @NikNik

and everyone for helping too 🙂 @CheerBear@Shaz51@Former-Member@utopia

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