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outlanderSenior Contributor
hi @Mazarita @Owlunar @Former-Member @Adge @Spookytookims @CheerBear @Former-Member @Shaz51
i was lil-caterpillar
im back..... i think.....
im just treading very very lightly at the moment
but id like to let you know that i have read what you wrote on my other threads and i appreciate your kind words and for thinking of me even after i left here 
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
Hi @outlander ....
A bit of a slow day over here. Yesterday was pretty unsettled so I try to take more of a self-care day the next day when that has happened. I took a couple of walks, one with a friend this morning,
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
Good morning @outlander xx
how are you this morning
we are off to work mowing today , will be back after 
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
Hi @outlander
All the best when you see your GP today - I am glad you were able to get another appointment
And I am glad your sisters are okay
And it's a lovely day here where I live - a bit cold but then - it's May
I hope you have the best day possible and that your breast infection is clearing up - also - I hope the other tests are okay - I know all of this is hard for you
Dec
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
Hi @outlander-
I just read back on your thread and how you were sick yesterday along with everyone else and you mother is just your female parent - just rolling her eyes when you are sick but taking the day off and staying in bed when you are sick - ah uh - that just made me roll my eyes about her
But hey - taking her boyfriend to work and picking him up is not your responsibility - actually - he is an adult male and it's his thing to get to work and home again - that is so wrong - your mother really is using you too much - it's almost a form of abuse
You are a lot more mature than most people your age - you have had to grow up fast and have so much responsibility - and yes - you do have a lot of spare/pretend mothers and sisters here - we care about you
I am looking forward to seeing my picture but take your time - there is no hurry - I am wondering about your breast infection - I hope you are feeling better by now but you must have eaten something bad if everyone was sick - and yukky - yes - it is
Thinking of you Outlander
Dec
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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