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outlanderSenior Contributor
hi @Mazarita @Owlunar @Former-Member @Adge @Spookytookims @CheerBear @Former-Member @Shaz51
i was lil-caterpillar
im back..... i think.....
im just treading very very lightly at the moment
but id like to let you know that i have read what you wrote on my other threads and i appreciate your kind words and for thinking of me even after i left here 
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
Hello @outlander
glad you went to the hospital my friend xx
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
Its hard when females do that bitchy in your face thing showing off how much fun they have with each other, but in the long term, it IS THEIR nastiness and you are better without it. Find a gorgeous Athena or Zena suit of armour to flick of any feelings about them stick.
Its the main reason I went tomboyish early in life.
Dont let your self concept be influenced by them.
I am more concerned that your mother is not giving you time out for legit physical stuff. I had a lot of that with my mother. Its a sign of their issues. You have the right to rest and recover.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
ok @Former-Member
wow reading what you wrote about how your family sounds like a mirror to mine. I call me the cinderalla without a happy ending, so I get exactly where you are coming from when your describing that. I deleted myself from the forum for a few days and then decided to come back. The dust has settled, although im very super nervous and a lot of the times uncomfortable but maybe one day itll get back to normal. But it will take time and I understand that for both me and the other people as well so im not pushing anything im just letting everything BE.
Your not prying at all. I really dont mind and if I dont understand or really want to answer the question I will let you know that as well, so please dont think im ignoring you, if im on my phone and it takes a while to write a response I find it easier to type it on the computer otherwise it takes me all day lol.
Yes I get how intimidating it is going to gps and things as well, I HAVE to see mine at least every week otherwise they call me.
I see my gp on wednesday morning, I decided to change it so I didnt have a double whammy on momday but ill still be going on monday to see the womens heath nurse about some questions that are concerning me about the upcoming pelvic exam. I am also with @CheerBear response about you thinking your out of sync with others as well. I too appreciate you opinion, and perspective as well.
Yeah me too @Shaz51 it was extremely scary extremely scary! But I guess it was something that I needed to do.
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
Hi @outlander
I can be your spare-Mum if you like - when necessary - that was my spare-Mum persona yesterday - I guess I could have had more children - but that was not to be
Your lil-sisters need a smack around the ears - I know what that is like - I only had one of them and I couldn't do anything right - I had to close off from her and that has lasted our life-times - which is really sad
But I get it - if something was blue and I decided to agree with my lil-sister that it was black we would still argue - I bet you get the feeling you are a redundant being until you can clean out the horse paddock or baby-sit and entertain the lit-sisters -
Two of them - my heart is wrung out for you - say no more - but you can actually - I will always listen
I am glad your Anti-tet is up to date - esp around horses - mine is - I have a cat who does accidently scratch at times and they used to graze horses up here - I had mine updated last year
It takes real courage to totally ignore lil-sisters - but apart from her no one has succeeded in teasing me - no one tries now - it was good training but I still found it rotten - I get it
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