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outlanderSenior Contributor
hi @Mazarita @Owlunar @Former-Member @Adge @Spookytookims @CheerBear @Former-Member @Shaz51
i was lil-caterpillar
im back..... i think.....
im just treading very very lightly at the moment
but id like to let you know that i have read what you wrote on my other threads and i appreciate your kind words and for thinking of me even after i left here 
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I've had really good news tonight @outlander, would you like to hear about it?
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SpookytookimsSenior Contributor
@outlander ok I'll try to remember and list some that I can think of.
There's just a few off the top of my head I can think of. None of them are small fry things. I think you are underestimating yourself and that pesky ant should be tapping you on the shoulder right now.
That's not say what you are feeling is not valid, it is very much so. But... also you should think about how much you are achieving so you get a true balance of how great you are doing.
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My adult child got the dream job they really wanted @outlander 🙂 They still haven't finished the certification course, but the employer told them that they by-passed all the other resume's they had because they were specifically wanted! I know I'm a Chicken, but tonight I'm a brilliantly coloured Peacock, with a fully fanned out tail! I have never amounted to much outlander, and I certainly couldn't help with any of their studies - and they have stressed and stressed over this course, almost giving up a week or so ago. But even before making it, they have made it - it can happen! 🙂
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im glad you can see that @Spookytookims yes i did do all those things i guess
i really dont feel brave and courageous i feel like a very small scared coward of a mouse hiding under a rock and not knwing what to do or where to go from here
i didnt see the trip or the freindship dealings as a big deal Spooky i seen them as i needed to do them
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