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outlanderSenior Contributor
hi @Mazarita @Owlunar @Former-Member @Adge @Spookytookims @CheerBear @Former-Member @Shaz51
i was lil-caterpillar
im back..... i think.....
im just treading very very lightly at the moment
but id like to let you know that i have read what you wrote on my other threads and i appreciate your kind words and for thinking of me even after i left here 
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Anony18Senior Contributor
Oh @outlander trust me you are. You are a beautiful person who is just going through an extremely rough time. I know this because of the times you been there for not only me but everyone else on this forum.
Do take a step back if things are making you uncomfortable or you just not up to it. It is overwhelming alright with the many responses. I get that too but as you already said just take step back. Read it from "afar" but don't feel obligated to respond. As for leaving, though be sad to see you go if you think leaving is the right choice for your mentality, you have to. Like I told my Now friend - unfortunately you have to be selfish to do what is right for your healing. And as a friend because I care (and am sure others here) I respect that. Do hope what am saying doesn't make you feel worse because it isn't my intention. I just want you to know I care for you a lot.
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Anony18Senior Contributor
@outlander How long ago did you lose her? It is always hard to lose someone you love, someone who been there for you. But mourning is natural and am sorry that you have lost her x
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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