Recognition for the work that carers do

@Phoenix_Rising

I too very much like the concept of the wise mind and it is particularly relevant for me with the complaint that I have in at present. Somewhat timely, this weekend I listened to someone speak about grace and truth and this very much ties in with the wise mind concept. If one shows too much grace you let people off with bad behaviour, but if one goes by the absolute letter of the law, you do not allow for human weakness and imperfections. I know that I want to be treated with kindness and compassion when I don't quite get things right. How this translates in practice for my complaint, if indeed I am thought to have a case worthy, remains to be seen but I am certainly giving much thought to it as it is quite possible that concilliation could be the next step (unless the HCC dismisses my complaint or feels an investigation is warranted).

Darcy

Hi @Former-Member,

Thank you for checking in. I am ultra struggling at the moment. I so very very badly need to talk it out, but alas, I have been relegated to my pause button until NikNik gets home. I'm so scared that even then the necessary talking won't happen. This is all so so so SO hard.

I'm going to try superly duperly hard to make it to FF tomorrow night. I super want to.

How are you and Mr Darcy going at the moment?

@Former-Member. Thank you. I was super glad to see you there too. This is all so so SO hard.

@Former-Member No. My DBT skills are helping me to survive until NikNik gets home. The conflict resolution is only going to be helped by talking it through.