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Riding a wave

Phoenix_RisingSenior Contributor22 Mar 2017, 11:35 am AEDT

Riding a wave

Hi all,

@CherryBomb, @Former-Member or any other @Former-Member floating around Forum Land, will you ride a wave with me? I thought I would be fine doing something...but it turns out that the something has made my big feelings BIG and now I'm in a pickle...and there's nothing worse than a pickled turtle! I'm going to go and snuggle in my bed so I probably won't actually respond to you, but it will still super help me to know that I am not utterly alone on the wave. I don't want to tag anyone else because I don't want anyone to feel they need to respond. Thank you in advance for riding with me.

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Phoenix_RisingSenior Contributor16 Nov 2017, 6:55 pm AEDT

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I really really really need to actually talk to a human being. I need to talk this through. Talking it through (as opposed to typing it through) would super help. Venting and dumping helps, but at some point we need to have a CONVERSATION about the muddle. I truly thought it was going to get unmuddled a bit today. Is it now set to stagnate until NikNik gets home in two weeks?

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Unknown userMember16 Nov 2017, 6:55 pm AEDT

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Out getting lobster @Zoe7

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Zoe7Senior Contributor16 Nov 2017, 6:55 pm AEDT

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look what I found - @Phoenix_Rising lol

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Unknown userMember16 Nov 2017, 6:56 pm AEDT

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Is this who you were looking for, @Phoenix_Rising? Loster lobster. 😊

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Zoe7Senior Contributor16 Nov 2017, 6:57 pm AEDT

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@Former-Member @Former-Member @Phoenix_Rising @CheerBear you do all realise the more images we post the longer the waiting game goes on - don't you lol

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Unknown userMember16 Nov 2017, 6:57 pm AEDT

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@Phoenix_Rising wrote:
Is it now set to stagnate until NikNik gets home in two weeks?

I had an icky feeling about this too, @Phoenix_Rising. 🙁 I really hope not.

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Zoe7Senior Contributor16 Nov 2017, 6:59 pm AEDT

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Are you able to call tonight @Phoenix_Rising ?

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Phoenix_RisingSenior Contributor16 Nov 2017, 7:00 pm AEDT

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I so very very very badly need to talk it through. I feel SO shut down. Everything felt super safe and ok with Pebbles and Lunar yesterday. Now it feels terrifying again. I feel voiceless and powerless. The fact that Suzanne could say a bit that happened on the phone, but I can't say what happened on the phone on Thursday night feels so so SO terrifyingly icky.

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Zoe7Senior Contributor16 Nov 2017, 7:03 pm AEDT

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Yes @Phoenix_Rising I get that and I can see exactly how that feels like one rule for one and a different rule for another. I however do not believe it was intentional - just Suzanne trying to explain the situation to everyone - but she maybe should not have included part of what was discussed with you!

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Zoe7Senior Contributor16 Nov 2017, 7:06 pm AEDT

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@Former-Member this is going to get out of control very quickly.

The signs are already there. @Phoenix_Rising is already in distress, @Former-Member is not feeling safe, Nell23 has already stated that she is having trouble with the discussion around last Thursday night and the FB post - and I personally am now starting to also get anxious simply at the thought of it happening again.

Please help!

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