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✨Sunday Intention Setting✨

✨Sunday Intention Setting✨

Hello lovely people,

I have been reflecting on some ways we can support you all through our recovery-oriented way of connecting on the forums, and thought that creating a weekly intention setting/reflection conversation could be really helpful. 🥰

Intention-setting can allow us to more mindfully focus our attention onto the things we would like to explore more of (without too much pressure!). And when we do so within community, it can help us to feel more supported as we go about exploring new habits and ideas.

Now, this isn't about showing up perfectly or reaching all of our 'goals' overnight, but rather, exploring what is possible, what we enjoy, and how we can feel more safely connected to ourselves.

So, what will this look like exactly?

1. Set your intention for the week. For example, I am going to practice allowing myself 5 minutes a day to slow down.

2. Reflect. You can do this throughout the week via your notes app, a journal, or here on the forums. *Notice what feels good, what doesn't, and why.

3. Share the following Sunday. Let us know what you were able to explore and what came up for you/if you have any questions or need some support.

Remember - there is no right or wrong! It's so fine if all you did was hold the intention in the back of your mind - change takes time. I would love you all to have fun with this and to explore things from a place of curiosity and compassion. 💛

And... go! @MissGremlin @NightFury @Bow @Shaz51 @Captain24 @creative_writer @avant-garde @Oaktree @ENKELI @Dimity @Semly @Appleblossom @MJG017 @Sunnyside226 @Blackcloud @PeppyPatti @Till23

@Jynx @tyme @Ru-bee @rav3n @RiverSeal

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Lovely idea @AuntGlow @rav3n .

I guess I can "thank" (??) myself for being willing to "give things a chance" and engaging extra support services this year to help myself cope (despite the cost).

I can release... 🤔

I will be continually trying to remember ("release") to not feel guilty or ashamed about taking time off to try to recover and find a palatable life.

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@AlwaysMyself such a great response, you absolutely deserve guilt-free time to recover!! 💙

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@AuntGlow , @rav3n

I would like to thank myself for keeping My Kidney disease stage 4 and other physical health (diabetes, osteoporosis, and other problems) this year Stable

even when it was very hard and overwhelming at times when every day is different

As for what I will release.?

I think I will try and release the feeling of worrying and being anxious every time when I get my regular blood tests results and testing my blood sugar 4 times a day every day

and to remind myself that I am ok and safe and that I am capable for the year to come in any situation (either stable or on dialysis)

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@Shaz51 you've been working so hard, looking after Mr Shaz and yourself too!! even on the hard days, you pushed through 💙

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@AuntGlow I don't think I can thank myself for anything this year except perhaps persisting. Arguably a less than admirable trait.

I don't know what to release other than attachments. I'm not Buddhist but perhaps that's a way forward with less pain.

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Proud of you for following through, I know how much courage and discipline that takes. @Oaktree 🫶

Reminding myself "that I am ok and safe and that I am capable" is such a beautiful intention to take into the new year.

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You can absolutely thank yourself for showing up to support services - that's huge!! @AlwaysMyself

I really like this intention for you, self-compassion is such an important part of recovery. I will be here to remind you of this. 🫶

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Persisting is an incredibly admirable trait. I am always so inspired by you and how much you keep showing up for yourself, even when it's hard. @Dimity

Forming attachments is a very normal part of being human, but we can certainly benefit from practicing healthy detachment if we are becoming overwhelmed or consumed by an outcome. What attachments would you like to release? 💛

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Keeping your health conditions stable is such an amazing feat @Shaz51. It shows how hard you have been working to prioritise your wellbeing, even when things have been challenging. You definitely deserve to release some pressure here, you are doing all that you can and you should be really proud!!

Thank you so much for sharing this with us. 🥰

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@AuntGlow

I thank myself for still being alive and somewhat functional. Really dont know if I should have been more assertive about all the legal issues or if putting it off to next year, just compounds the problems.

Not sure what to release: Trying not to be cutesy and woooo hippy ... or hang onto outdated things, as I am confronted by family history, yesterday with my nephew looking for answers... so much ... for letting go of the past .... cos if we dont understand we are doomed to repeat... the gorgeous dumb brother who did push the positivity and let of the past, is still dead, and I spoke to his kids on phone ... trying not to self whip ... might be the thing to let go of ... staying alive... sorry its pretty bottomline.

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