My life sucks

@Blackcloud completely understand the anxiety, it's so hard to manage.

Sending you gentle hugs sweet ♥️

@MissGremlin just right after I posted that, I immediately decided to go 😂 it’s one of those things where I just talk about the things that I don’t wanna do but have to, but then right after I do that, I then was able to do the actual thing. I’ve done it many times 😂😂 I think it’s becoming my main coping mechanism to be honest.

thats true, and I completely agree with you. Thank you so much for the reassurance ❤️

@Blackcloud well done for doing it 😊.

Anytime sweet ♥️

@Cuddlebear

I don't know what else to really say or help with, but I completely feel you about this and I hope you know that I'm always here. ❤️ I'm also scared and worried on what my future's gonna be like after I graduate from uni, but at the same time I like to hope that I'd be able to have money to afford for private rental (or whatever it can be)... I don't want to go back to live with my parents in their social housing apartment because I don't have a good relationship with them and my sister.

This might be a weird question if you don't mind me asking, but if you do have to end up facing homelessness, is there a way you can like afford a tent or a van/caravan to stay at? I was watching a couple of youtube videos of people staying in their vans, cars and it was quite interesting to look at, seeing what they do in there and stuff.

and this may or may not be a helpful suggestion, but you can also contact lifeline (phone or chat) if you're going through a crisis, if you're comfortable of course. 🙂I'm about to volunteer as a crisis supporter over there soon, and from what I know, lifeline only focuses on the feelings you're having, as well as what things have helped you or not in the past and present, and if necessary we do give referrals only if the help seeker (you) themselves want to get referrals. we don't provide counselling/therapy which can be pretty weird for people that are willing to seek counselling/therapy help, we are just there to provide help seekers (including you) support and be there for you guys that are going through a crisis.

@Spirit_Healer honestly, I wish I can change my ethnicity. Sucks that we can’t do that though. I hate how it’s something that we can’t control either.

@MissGremlin @rav3n @AuntGlow @Jynx

@Blackcloud oh sweet, i can only imagine how tough it is for you. Here if you wanna chat. Sending you hugs ♥️

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@Blackcloud wrote:

@Spirit_Healer honestly, I wish I can change my ethnicity. Sucks that we can’t do that though. I hate how it’s something that we can’t control either.

@MissGremlin @rav3n @AuntGlow @Jynx

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I'm interested to hear more @Blackcloud . If you feel up to it. Is it because you feel you are treated differently or something?

@MissGremlin I was watching a YouTube video like half an hour ago that was titled “the brutal truth about wanting to get married”, when I was reading through the comments and listening to the lady talk about the topic, it all just suddenly reminds me of my mum….like how she refuses to see why it’s a good thing that people like myself prefer not to get married and all and it’s frustrating that she still thinks that you need to have someone to look up to and take care of you of and things like that….like…idk. I just wish she can see the modern way of why it’s better for people of any age to be alone instead of them being pressured to be in a relationship. Cause at the end of the day, it’s your own mental well-being that matters & being alone is better than being with someone you know you won’t be happy with in the long term or whatnot.

@tyme You can read my response from above.

not to mention marriage/family is such a big deal in the culture. Even though my mum has accepted the fact that I don’t want kids, but she wants me to have a partner/husband and get married….