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BlueBaySenior Contributor
how do you have enough 'self love'?
I am struggling with this big time. I have no self love, no self esteem or confidence.
I think because of my childhood abuse, my parents not talking to me; my controlling mum ruling me all my life; my depression, anxiety and pstd have not helped with my self love.
I can easily give a compliment to someone or advice but I struggle greatly accepting the same to me.
How to others cope or what do you do? Any tips?
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Don't know what to say right now, but feel for you. Big hug. One day at a time @mohill, quiet yourself on the inside today xox
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BlueBaySenior Contributor
Hi @Former-Member
I need to re read this later to absorb what im reading. but i just wanted to send you a big warm hug and lots of love to you xxxooo
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
Hello @Former-Member 
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