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Managing thoughts of suicide & self-harm

Battles

MissGremlinSenior Contributor15 Mar 2025, 8:19 pm AEDT

Battles

Hi all, does anyone else just feel like life is just one big sh!t show? It's just one thing after another, constant drama, family issues, money struggles, stress, anxiety it's just always something.

When do things get easier, do things ever change?

I've been through more than i care to think about in my life but today has pushed me to breaking point and it's bringing up alot of bad memories of previous suicide attempts.

I just feel like it's not worth it, it's not worth fighting, not worth hanging on anymore.

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NightFurySenior Contributor31 Jan 2026, 4:39 pm AEDT

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Hi @MissGremlin I've just finished bowls and I'm about to head home. I can't wait to get home, honestly.

How's your day been?

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor31 Jan 2026, 4:48 pm AEDT

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@NightFury I'm glad you get to go home.

My day is tough. I'm trying to do things to keep myself distracted but don't really feel like anything is working. (I'm safe)

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HoneymoonModerator31 Jan 2026, 5:08 pm AEDT

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Hey @MissGremlin

I'm really sorry to hear you've been finding it hard to effectively distract yourself today. It's tough when you just need a break from these distressing thoughts but finding that escape is challenging.

What are some activities that have helped distract you in the past? Do you enjoy comfort shows or nature walks? I know those have always been great distractions for me during difficult times.

Thanks for confirming your safety too. We're here for you💓

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor31 Jan 2026, 5:14 pm AEDT

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Hello @Honeymoon, usually things like music, colouring, TV shows/movies, crafts are good distractions for me. But they've just become a chore and aren't really effective now. Today just hurts and it's a reminder of all the mistakes I've made throughout my life. I have tears wanting to flow but I'm holding them in cos I'm scared if I let them out i won't be able to stop them and I don't want to feel that loss of control right now. I have my puppy Casper with me and I'm just quietly keeping connected with the community here.

Thankyou ❤️.

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NightFurySenior Contributor31 Jan 2026, 5:14 pm AEDT

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Hugs @MissGremlin I'm sorry to hear you're having a tough day, my friend. Has your new lego set arrived yet?

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor31 Jan 2026, 5:15 pm AEDT

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@NightFury not yet but it apparently has been shipped so hopefully not much longer.

Would you like to have a cuppa with me?

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NightFurySenior Contributor31 Jan 2026, 5:22 pm AEDT

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I'm just picking up some food for dinner, but if you give me 10 minutes, I would love to have a cuppa with you @MissGremlin

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor31 Jan 2026, 5:23 pm AEDT

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@NightFury no worries. Let me know when you are ready ☺️.

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HoneymoonModerator31 Jan 2026, 5:28 pm AEDT

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That sounds incredibly heavy right now @MissGremlin, like you're trying to keep yourself steady in the middle of something really overwhelming. You aren't alone and I'm sorry today has been so painful for you.

It's really lovely to hear that Casper is with you, and that you're staying quietly connected to the community. Being here is more than enough, and we are grateful that you are💜

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor31 Jan 2026, 5:34 pm AEDT

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Thankyou @Honeymoon ❤️.

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