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Family separation

Family separation

Hi it's been a tough fathers day for me second year without hearing from my adult kids after the nasty marriage breakdown and divorce involving domestic violence against me by my ex wife. I am very down because l care and think about my kids every day and l have a granddaughter that l haven't seen for 2 years also. I feel my ex wife is controlling the kids having turned them against.me .I worry about my granddaughter growing up without her grandfather because my daughter is too selfish to allow her to see me. I have never hurt anyone but l feel like l am.such a bad dad and l hate to think what crap my granddaughter is being told.It takes away meaning to my life. I doubt the situation will ever improve. Why why do people still hurt me???

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@Ru-bee

I have so much going though my head that I can't concentrate on anything 😔

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@Appleblossom

I. Have 5 grandchildren that I can't see because their father told lie to their parents .

It's not fair on the children or on their love ones like grandparents. I understand where your coming from . It's very difficult

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What are you doing today?

I put out eggs and mushroom on the bench for dinner.

I have online psychologist soon.

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Are you able to give yourself a moment to sit and take some nice deep breaths @Leeanne1 It sounds like all those thoughts are overwhelming at the moment

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@Ru-bee

I'm crocheting some bees and clownfish plus doing homework.

I'm having fish and veggies

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Oh lovely @Leeanne1 do you find crocheting soothing? I like to knit and I find it really calming (except for when I make mistakes)

Sounds like you're having a really nourishing meal too

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@tyme thanks . Unfortunately the pain of family separation never gets better

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@tyme are you online?

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hey @Leeanne1 tyme will be back next week. i'm around if you wanted to chat 😊

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@rav3n

I'm upset 😭

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