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Family separation

Family separation

Hi it's been a tough fathers day for me second year without hearing from my adult kids after the nasty marriage breakdown and divorce involving domestic violence against me by my ex wife. I am very down because l care and think about my kids every day and l have a granddaughter that l haven't seen for 2 years also. I feel my ex wife is controlling the kids having turned them against.me .I worry about my granddaughter growing up without her grandfather because my daughter is too selfish to allow her to see me. I have never hurt anyone but l feel like l am.such a bad dad and l hate to think what crap my granddaughter is being told.It takes away meaning to my life. I doubt the situation will ever improve. Why why do people still hurt me???

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I've had a very stressful week 😞

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I'm thinking about my children

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I'm feeling very unwanted by my family since my husband died😩😢

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Awww hun @Leeanne1 ,

I'm sitting with you. I hear how lonely it can feel. I know you are doing your best with what you have.

I've missed talking to you. Sorry I didn't see the posts above.

Feel free to tag me into your future posts so I get a notification. You do this by typing "@" in front of my username e.g. @tyme

@john74 , thinking of you too.

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@tyme

Thank you I appreciate that you missed talking to me . It's made me feel a bit better

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Yes, I have been missing you @Leeanne1

I always picture you in the kitchen, going from here to there, happily cooking away lol.

I also picture things that you knit for some reason...

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@tyme

Thank you , you would make a good friend

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@tyme

I need to talk please message me back

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Hi @Leeanne1 @tyme isn't on at the moment but I'm here if you need to talk to someone

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@Leeanne1

I have been blocked from seeing 2 grandchildren. It is devastating and taken me a long time to come to terms with it. They will miss out on a lot and be misled about me. I find it shocking how many times I hear people having to endure such separations. Not good for the little ones or the true nature of family and society.

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