Destiny

Nope, not for me. @Rockdog . I saw it as good riddance!

There's a difference between people not liking you and not being a good fit. For example, there are plenty of people who like each other A LOT, but know they can never be a couple. Even here on the forums, I read of best friends who live apart because they know they can never be a couple. And that's okay.

It doesn't mean you are bad or no good.

Precisely. That's what I was thinking @Rockdog

Hi @tyme ,

it would have just made things worse because I only love the one person and if I never get to be with her then I guess noting else matters. If by chance my person ever found out , then I love you and always will. My heart belongs to you. I will always be grateful for the time you gave me. To everyone in the sane family who is part of my journey thank you. #destiny

Hi @tyme ,

I love her 🥲

I'd better hop off. @Rockdog Goodnight. Speak soon.

Thank @tyme ,

Thank you for listening . You are the best talk soon

Hi @tyme ,

thanks for everything. I really struggle at times. I edited my post today. Last night I didn’t think I could do it. I can do it and don’t need any negative post for my love story. Dreams can come true. 😊

Hi @tyme ,

thank you for your support,

i love her too much it just gets really hard. I’m not sure if she knew what I meant but I said I want my dreams to come true. She said sometimes they do.

Dreams do come true. But you must know what your dream is and whether you really believe it will come true @Rockdog That's my belief anyway.

Focus on your goal in life. It will keep you going.

Hi @tyme,

Thank you. I feel like dreams can come true and things can work out. I also started to look at DBT being non judgemental. My head was a bit all over the place on Friday when I was chatting to you. I realise I do need to work on being more non judgemental. What I said about the person I met was judgemental and harsh. Then I got judgemental on myself. These are skills I need in my new life. I do feel bad when my head gets a little out of whack. They do say what the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve. 😊