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Destiny

Hi @tyme ,

I would like to know more about destiny. I hadn’t really been in tune with my feelings, but when you mentioned about destiny things became came clear in my mind and my focus on the positive improved a lot. The one thing I wanted to ask was what if the destiny I am focussed on isn’t the same for her and she has other ideas. Were we really on the same page? I thought so, but then thought we weren’t. Is it ok to put all my heart into an outcome that I don’t know would be the same for her?

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Thanks @tyme ,

I get it. So it is in my heart for a reason and it wouldn’t be there if it isn’t real.

The rest is white noise to let go. Thank you that makes me feel a lot calmer. It is weird, it is all good then I overthink and it goes fuzzy. Thank you for helping me work through my mixed up brain.

Destiny is on, and honestly I feel blessed to have your support, and the Sane family.

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Hi @tyme ,

doubts just crept in. I messaged the woman I met for a drink and she said I was nice but she didn’t have a romantic connection. She was not attractive at all and not interested. How would my beautiful angel who is so beautiful be interested. Now I feel pretty low.

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Argh... here we go again... white noise? @Rockdog

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Hi @tyme,

sorry. You are right. I just had a clear moment and then like 2 minutes later had that message which made me think. The reality was I wasn’t interested and my heart belongs to my special person. My heart will always belong to her and no one else. I guess I just answered my own question. It is just that I am not good enough for someone I didn’t even like.

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Hi @tyme ,

I don’t want to upset you by going over the same stuff. It was just weird to be rejected by someone you didn’t like lol

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But also know, having a casual coffee and chat to someone is not wrong @Rockdog . You ARE allowed to be social.

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Hrm... i didn't see it that way @Rockdog .

If you didn't like them, and they rejected you, then it's more a godsend. That's how I read the situation.

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Hi @tyme ,

didn’t it mean that someone I thought was bad didn’t like me so someone I think is perfect wouldn’t be interested

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Hi @tyme ,

maybe 2 hearts are meant to mold as 1 🥰

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Hi @tyme ,

you are really important to me and having you on my side is special. I don’t want you to get tired of me going over the same stuff. We are getting there slowly. Destiny will happen. Thank you for being with me.

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