Destiny

Hey @tyme ,

hope you are going well.

Just wondering if there is any news?
Also in the DBT book it says listen to your gut, a person has a good feel for a situation. I highlighted that one. And facial expressions are hard wired aspects of emotions. Both points made me happy 😊

I am having a meeting tomorrow and hopefully I can get come more info to you @Rockdog . I'll email you shortly.

The DBT book made some great points there. 🙂 Glad you highlighted it.

Hi @tyme ,

yeah it is what you were saying. I couldn’t have misread the looks and what was happening I don’t think.

Everything I told you sounded like it to you didn’t it?
no stress about things, I was just wondering. I am so hoping things don’t clash because I have study and my volunteer day. I am not going to be able to stay with DBT because of the time, but it is interesting and I do want to learn more later. 😊

Hi @tyme ,

just wondering if you are free to chat tonight?

Heya @Rockdog 🙂

I'm free as I can be 🙂

How have things been going for you?

Lol hey @tyme 😊

things are ok but a little bit stressful. I am back studying and trying to organise my placement. Things are moving forward though. It is weird but I am a bit out of control, but on the right path I think.

It sounds so promising @Rockdog .

It's so encouraging to see how much you've grown since we first connected. Looking back, from having lost hope, to now holding onto hope because you KNOW good things are to come.

Your resilience, strength and openness really shines through. Well done to you.

I'm sure the study is stressful. But know you can breathe a sigh of relief once you are done 🙂

Hi @tyme

How have things been going for you?

Awww thank you @tyme,

you have been my rock. There are times where I really doubt myself. If I am honest I don’t know if I have really grown that much because I am holding on to one outcome that may not even happen. A close friend said the DBT gut feeling is more for my own situations rather than for my special person. Have I really grown? I’m not sure. I think I am better but there is so much more work to do. Have you finished holidays? Did you survive?

Yes. Thinking back, things were incredibly precarious. Now, it appears you have more direction, goal and aim in life. This is so rewarding to see @Rockdog .

As for the school holidays, kids were back to school this week. The eldest was sick though, so she stayed at home 2 days. I was babysitting her on Tuesday night while her parents had to go out... I stayed with her to put her to sleep because she was unwell.

As soon as it was time for lights out, she vomited EVERYWHERE! I had to change all her sheets, doona, doona cover, her clothes and everything... I'm thinking "Ewwwww! This is why I didn't want to become a parent!" This is the sort of stuff you had over the parents!

Anyway, they are all back on track. Going to school , arguing, fighting, etc. Kids are kids. Gotta love em!

Life on my side is pretty good. Got over some heavy stressors over the past few weeks. It's onwards and upwards.