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First World Problems

First World Problems

So, I'm feeling a bit put out. I have multiple mental health conditions as well as a spinal injury with chronic pain. As a result I am supported by the NDIS. Specifically, in this case, I usually get a cleaning service every 2 weeks to do the things I can't do like change my sheets. I have changed cleaning services a couple of times because cleaning services in particular seem to charge for much more than the time they actually attend. I started with a new service today. I had asked in advance whether they could do the sheet change and they said yes. But the couple who came to actually do the job weren't part of the initial conversation and they seem put out by the request. Once they finished the cleaning service one of them started asking what was wrong with me with a real tone in their voice. I stayed calm and answered honestly including mentioning that I have a spinal injury. They then started asking me how I acquired the injury, etc. The answer is dark and awkward but I explained it anyway. That seemed to shut her down a bit but the conversation was weird and pretty awkward. I'm pretty convinced that I just got deemed unworthy of help. And on one hand - go me - my walking is good now you can't really tell that I have a spinal injury. And on the other hand I feel put out and I want to fire them on the spot but I won't because that would be awkward too. First world problem, I know.

Anyone else got a first world problem for the day?

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Room temp unless you don't eat much bread and need to put it in the freezer for toast @Ainjoule 🙂

I like it! Feel free to post any more. It really gets us thinking!

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@tyme

I go to the toilet first as that’s usually an urgent desire and running the tap to brush my teeth would makevme wet myself

also cereal goes in the bowl first

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I'm cereal first too @Oaktree

Also, I think I want to be able to bursh my teeth first, then go to the loo, but I end up going to the loo because teeth don't 'call' you to attend to it, whereas the bladder does

@FridgeMagnet @Ainjoule @Bow @Stout

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@tyme , it's like extracting teeth isn't it.

My first world problem for the day is that what happened in the past year appears to have been stubbornly normalised. This war on mental health is "the way it is" to quote a (services) person.

The conundrum I spose is, what can't be seen didn't happen. And if it did, it's not what I think.

So stubborn is this paradigm, that it is a heavy burden that I must struggle to lift alone. I know I'm not alone. But geez, C'mon.

The country normalising the gross and brutal, whilst putting on the face of a first world.

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What's everyone's first world problem today @Stout @FridgeMagnet @Oaktree @Ainjoule @Bow ???

It's so windy where I am...

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@tyme @FridgeMagnet @Stout @Ainjoule @Bow

What my first world problem is today is that I just asked my son, who is a chef, for an easy panna cotta recipe. He gives me restaurant quantities lol. Makes like 3 Litres. I need to cut the recipe down to home quantities

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My first world problem @Shaz51 @tyme
I needed a new phone charger, except, to pay for the new phone charger I needed a charged phone for Apple Pay, and I couldn’t use my card, because the bank needs me to verify the new they sent me, using my phone, ironically, which I hadn’t done

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@ArraDreaming

Sounds like an annoying and frustrating catch 22 situation. Maybe see if you can use a friend’s charger to charge your phone so you can make the purchase

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I did I used my Mrs but this was when I was out of the house @Oaktree 🙂

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My first world problem for today is that some of my favourite artists have been releasing music 🎵 without an adequate amount of it having music 🎶 videos...I need a music video for the full experience. The trend seems to be to release "visualisers". Doesn't cut the mustard for me.

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