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First World Problems

First World Problems

So, I'm feeling a bit put out. I have multiple mental health conditions as well as a spinal injury with chronic pain. As a result I am supported by the NDIS. Specifically, in this case, I usually get a cleaning service every 2 weeks to do the things I can't do like change my sheets. I have changed cleaning services a couple of times because cleaning services in particular seem to charge for much more than the time they actually attend. I started with a new service today. I had asked in advance whether they could do the sheet change and they said yes. But the couple who came to actually do the job weren't part of the initial conversation and they seem put out by the request. Once they finished the cleaning service one of them started asking what was wrong with me with a real tone in their voice. I stayed calm and answered honestly including mentioning that I have a spinal injury. They then started asking me how I acquired the injury, etc. The answer is dark and awkward but I explained it anyway. That seemed to shut her down a bit but the conversation was weird and pretty awkward. I'm pretty convinced that I just got deemed unworthy of help. And on one hand - go me - my walking is good now you can't really tell that I have a spinal injury. And on the other hand I feel put out and I want to fire them on the spot but I won't because that would be awkward too. First world problem, I know.

Anyone else got a first world problem for the day?

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Hope you're feeling better soon @tyme!

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It's not going to dampen my spirit 🙂 @8ppleTree

I've got my forums family here.

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💜💜💜Absolutely! @tyme

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Thanks @defaultusername . I have a replacement cleaning service coming Monday. These ones come recommended so we'll see how it goes.

My first world problem for the day is that I have come home, was about to study for a bit then play my game. Only to discover that there is maintenance tonight for an hour in the game. Now I have to rejig my night and entertain myself for a whole hour while the game goes down! Also my dog doesn't like getting her paws wet so she is going to end up peeing in the flat. I have tried taking her out in the rain several times. She utterly refuses to stand in the rain! I just hope she uses her pet potty.

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I'm happy to hear that @FridgeMagnet, I hope the meeting went well!

And hopefully you found something to do while waiting for your game.

I understand your pain, my dogs don't go out in the rain either! Even with their raincoats on… I guess we need to invest in some lil booties, haha.

Hope all is well on your end.

P.s. today's first world problem is that it's snowing in the mountains so it's particularly cold at my place, but hey, it's better than the opposite.

Happy winter solstice everyone! ⛄

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Hey @defaultusername @FridgeMagnet @8ppleTree @OM108 @Appleblossom ,

My first world problem is I don't know what to order for dinner tonight. Too many options. Too many food apps.

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My first world problem for the day is that I picked up a fork from the sink and used it to eat some dinner only to realise it was the dog fork. I mean it was clean, but eww!

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At least it was clean @FridgeMagnet! Haha.

And I live in a small town so I can't relate to having too many food delivery apps @tyme, but I can certainly relate to not knowing where to get food from as I am perpetually indecisive, haha.

Today's first world problem is that I'm on school holidays and because I love studying I am feeling a bit lost each day, but I am making the most of having spare time to catch up/focus on everything else (caring responsibilities, appointments, and housework etc.).

Hope you are all well! 😊

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Lol @defaultusername ,

Hearing you. Being indecisive of food is like being indecisive of what to watch.

Thank you for tagging me into this thread. I find this thread very helpful in re-calibrating our life's perspectives.

My first world problem today was that the heated steering wheel in my car was too warm for my hands.

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Hrmmmm @FridgeMagnet @defaultusername @8ppleTree @OM108 @Appleblossom ,

My first world problem is that I have 2 cars and don't know where to park them.

My second world problem is that I couldn't get the automatic garage door open today so I couldn't get the electric car out. Hence I had to use the petrol car. When I went to start the petrol car, it wouldn't start because the engine flooded out. I called road side assist to come, but then later fixed the issue myself so I cancelled road side assist....

Argh..... totally first world problems.

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