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First World Problems

First World Problems

So, I'm feeling a bit put out. I have multiple mental health conditions as well as a spinal injury with chronic pain. As a result I am supported by the NDIS. Specifically, in this case, I usually get a cleaning service every 2 weeks to do the things I can't do like change my sheets. I have changed cleaning services a couple of times because cleaning services in particular seem to charge for much more than the time they actually attend. I started with a new service today. I had asked in advance whether they could do the sheet change and they said yes. But the couple who came to actually do the job weren't part of the initial conversation and they seem put out by the request. Once they finished the cleaning service one of them started asking what was wrong with me with a real tone in their voice. I stayed calm and answered honestly including mentioning that I have a spinal injury. They then started asking me how I acquired the injury, etc. The answer is dark and awkward but I explained it anyway. That seemed to shut her down a bit but the conversation was weird and pretty awkward. I'm pretty convinced that I just got deemed unworthy of help. And on one hand - go me - my walking is good now you can't really tell that I have a spinal injury. And on the other hand I feel put out and I want to fire them on the spot but I won't because that would be awkward too. First world problem, I know.

Anyone else got a first world problem for the day?

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@OM108 @FridgeMagnet @Appleblossom @8ppleTree @defaultusername

My first world problem for tonight is: my heat pack isn't hot anymore....

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@tyme

No!! 😳 The worst! I love a heatpack!

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Whatevz @8ppleTree ! It's STILL a first-world problem lol!

What's your first world problem for today?

I love this thread so much. It fills me with gratitude. So much so, I've bookmarked and subscribed to it @FridgeMagnet 🙂

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haha @tyme No I'm serious, heatpacks are life!

Sadly, my first world problem today was a sour cherry. In a punnet of cake, cream and sweet cherries (which I had to eat under pressure from my cat who was eyeing off the cream), my perfect mouth sensations were ruined by a bite into a less than perfect cherry.

Mouth disaster 😌

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Thanks @OM108 , I really appreciate your response.

My first world problem for the day is that I have a shirt that I really like the look of, fits perfectly and it's long sleeve so great for winter....

...but I put it on and it's itchy as hell!

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@FridgeMagnet

haha thanks for the laugh! was enjoying that you had a shirt you like...and then came the first world punchline!

like @tyme said,... it is great fun to come back to this thread every week and catch up on the most important problems in life...small things matter!

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Hey @OM108 @FridgeMagnet @8ppleTree @Appleblossom @defaultusername ,

My first world problem today is that I drove past the service station where I wanted to fuel my car.... better luck next time! (even though my tank is still more than half fuel)

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@FridgeMagnet @OM108 @8ppleTree @Appleblossom @defaultusername ,

My next first world problem for today is that I have a heat pack on my feet, I am wearing an Oodie, I have 2 heaters on, and I'm still cold....

And yes, I had that warm cuppa already... didn't work.

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I'm happy that you discussed the matter with your support coordinator about the situation, I hope you can find a replacement cleaning service soon!

And I'm loving the concept of sharing our first world problems, as it's nice to vent a bit about small annoyances, but it also helps put things into perspective and realise how grateful we still are. So thank you, @FridgeMagnetfor your initial post!

My first world problem for today is that my study window is broken and it is a cold day today, so blankets and heater it is!

I hope you are all well 🧡

@FridgeMagnet, @OM108, @8ppleTree, @Appleblossom & @tyme.

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I love the idea too @defaultusername !

My first world problem is that I've got COVID so my 8 year old niece brought me shepherd's pie for dinner from her place (next door). But it had cheese on top and I don't like cheese on top.

@FridgeMagnet @OM108 @8ppleTree @Appleblossom

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